i havent eaten for about 5 or 6 days now cos since i stopped eating this guy my crush is beginning to like me. but now i eel really ill i woke up this morning and felt really ..light. and my head hurts in weird places, my ears have popped, my stomach really, really hurts, my skin is pale, eyes bloodshot, and it's hard to walk and move my wrist!! but i cant just not eat cos i got a date with a guy 2moro! pls help me
2007-10-19 07:29:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
if i srart eating again he will hate me and fink i am fat! pls help me
2007-10-19 07:31:23 · update #1
it is real ok but i havent got any1 else to speak 2 cosn ni liv with my dad nd thats it nd al my m8 given up on me so ther no point calli them
2007-10-19 07:41:45 · update #2
Umm he aint worth dating..u need to eat and stop being childish
2007-10-19 07:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to eat sweetie. Even if it is a very light meal, such as a piece of fruit or a vegetable or something. You should never harm your body for a guy, no matter how much you think you like him. If you are trying to lose weight, not eating will only make you gain. If you go lengths of time with no calories or fat, when you do start back eating normal, you body will try to store all the calories and fat is can, because it doesn't know when you are going to eat again. Take care of your body now, and it will pay off when you get older.
2007-10-19 14:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by hot_mom2680 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry bay but if the guy is only goin to go out with cuz you are skinny then that is retarded. Plus it takes about a week to a week in a half to notice if you lost weight. Maybe the guy started liking you just at the wrong time. But you need to eat. When you start eating the weight you lost will come back. If you want to lose weight exercise. Running and crunches are great for losing weight and don't eat too much junk food or fast food.
2007-10-19 15:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by lynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had sumthing a bit like this. if youve been drinking fluid but not eating, start eating. it doesnt matter about the guy cos ur going to get really really ill if u dont. if u have not been drinking much fluids, id go to hospital. dont eat anything too heavy or u mite dehydrate. if i were u id go see a doctor and say how u r feelin, the important thing is, dont carry on how u r. it mite b 2 do with a virus as well as u not eating.
2007-10-19 14:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by miniejllo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you the biggest piece of information i have learned about guys: guys *hate* girls with problems. it doesn't matter what the problem is, GUYS DO NOT LIKE COMPLICATED GIRLS. so if this guy finds out you've been starving yourself for the last week just so he'll think you're pretty, he's going to run like he's got the devil chasing him.
Now, here's the second biggest piece of advice: whatever you think of yourself is what everyone else will think of you. so if you're constantly telling yourself you're not good enough, guess what. everyone else will think that too. so grow a spine and tell yourself that you are one beautiful, intelligent, strong, incredibly amazing chick who doesn't take sh!t from anybody and who doesn't need anyone around her to be perfectly happy. Everyone you meet will be drawn to your confidence and will respect you and want to be in your inner circle, and anyone who disagrees with you isn't worth your time.
and lastly, the most important thing i could tell you right now is that you need to eat something. when you starve yourself, your body isn't getting any energy or nutrition. so if you keep it up, eventually your hair will fall out from malnutrition (does that sound pretty to you?), and your body will stop functioning from lack of energy-- just like a car running out of gas. only you can't put more fuel in your body when you're dead. can you imagine how much pain your friends and family will feel when you die of starvation?
please be smart... good luck!
2007-10-19 15:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Queen of Cups 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?! I can guarantee you that his interest in you has NOTHING to do with your eating habits. Think of it like this...what guy is going to like you when you are lying in a hospital bed sick because you haven't been eating? Unless you want to faint on this date, I suggest you eat something and consider speaking to a psychologist or school counselor.
Sorry to be harsh, but eating disorders and mental morphs of yourself are a serious issue in this country and it's not something to be overlooked.
2007-10-19 14:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ambi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You NEED to eat everyday becuase you are no good ill to anyone . If you feel really bad you should call your doctor just to be on the safe side.
2007-10-19 14:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by David K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you going to eat on your date?
he doesnt like you becuase you stopped eating. this is so dumb.
Your stomach is probably bleeding from the stomach acid attacking it because of lack of food.
WHERE is your mother to notice you being sick?
i bet that guy is going to RUN as soon as he finds out you are weird and stopped eating to make him like you...
2007-10-19 14:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by Rae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to eat! it is very unhealthy to stop eating like that.. im sure you are not that fat.. but really you need to eat now!
try a diet of reducing how much you eat.. and not eating empty calories in soda and junk food.
you might want to have your parents take you to a doctor also..
2007-10-19 14:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by David 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is for real, you are really foolish. Go on a diet, but not eating will KILL you.
2007-10-19 14:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by jon_mac_usa_007 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋