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Only one solution: Tell him.

2007-10-19 05:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 4

First you have to observe your roommate as to why He develop this habits. There were different kinds of habits that we might see to this person so we don't have to jump to conclusions at once. Then talk to him in a friendly manner so he might not be offended. Ask him why he is doing those annoying habits and explain to him that you are being annoyed of what he is doing. He might have some problems that he can not tell or you don't know that you yourself had an annoying habits that's why he is doing those things just to retaliate. Apply diplomacy to avoid infighting among you and your roommates.

2007-10-23 18:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by robert2roy 1 · 0 0

I'm not sure what you mean by "develops". I'm thinking they probably had those habits but just didn't show you till now. Whatever their habits you won't be able to change them. Since leases run out in a year, you'll have to either learn to tolerate those habits or save your money so that you can move. Remember that everyone has habits, and that a habit can be annoying to one person but not to another person. Another thing is that habits, no matter how annoying, if you're stuck with it for about three months you will probably learn to ignore it. People only change things in their life when they see a need to change. If you mention the habit they will get testy and it will cause more irritation (but this time on "both" sides). If you want peace, then keep your comments to yourself.

2007-10-19 05:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1 1

I'm experiencing this annoying housemate problem until now and i have been living with this freak of nature for 2 years. She's disgusting and dirty and self centered and childish. I couldn't get rid of her because the management refused to do so since it's a hostel eventhough 3 other housemates complaint against her. Based on my experience, if u can't get rid of an annoying housemate, either you treat her invisible or u get even with her. But for those who are not exactly living in a hostel, just kick out that annoying housemate and get ur other housemates to go against her and confront her. If she knows the meaning of 'shame' she will DEFINATELY move out from the house. If it's just u having problem with her, then u move out, though u may think that u r giving her the satisfaction and she had 'won', would u rather face her 'annoying habits' every time u come home and clean up her mess because u just can't stand the sight of the house being in a mess up condition?

2007-11-01 23:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sugar Plum 1 · 0 0

Try to live at peace with everyone including your room mate! Live a clean life because If you don't, your roommate will complain against you.
. Make sure to show kindness at all times. Don't let anyone become bitter and cause
trouble for the rest of you. But watch out for immoral roommate who may get you in trouble.

2007-11-01 21:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Peter Gabriel 1 · 0 0

Well the only thing you can do really is tell him...Your roommate might just think you have annoying habits...But i wouldn't just come out with it i think you should wait and see if he stops...

2007-10-26 23:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A lot of people choose roommates they hope will be in sync and not create any conflict. That's hard, if not impossible, to find. So just accept that you are going to annoy your roomie and he/she will annoy you. Maybe you should start the conversation that way.

Overall, be open. Communicate and commit to being as considerate as possible. Some people aren't good in the household dept. But at least you should try to give him/her a chance. Also, it may sound corny but perhaps you all should have regular check in meetings. You could check in about bills/utilities, plans to be out of town, having guests in town or to make household concerns known. Just talk it out.

2007-10-23 08:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by zupermodel 2 · 0 1

I will not leave my friend in this state. I will try my best to change the habits of my this friend psychologily. i will politely tell him/highlight about his habits. Then i will try to develope his awareness of his annoying habits and let him get rid of his these annyoing habits gradually.

2007-10-24 18:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sarwar J 1 · 0 0

Excuse my annoying habit of dispensing an ageold unpalatable advice.duty demands i give myself one here and now:"Physician,heal thyself". And I will.For a healthy mind ,like a healthy body is less rigid.A lot elastic.naturally it appreciates,even when it adapts not,a different kind of doings It can clearly see ours is not the only way of living.It is only one of the many ways of living in the world.Naturally,then the same displeasing habits of the roommate will appear pleasing.A joke to end,I doled out this advice to a client.Howled he-I'm a surgeon, not physician. '

2007-10-24 07:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by chillyoung 6 · 0 1

You have to be able to talk reasonably honestly with a roommate. If something is bothering you, it's time to speak up. That doesn't mean that you have to be confrontational about it. The best "message" to send is to say, "it bothers me when you do "; you don't have to say "You're a slob," or "you're a bad roommate;" just say what's bothering you without passing judgment. Chances are that when the roommate knows that something is bothering you, he/she will work with you to come to an agreement.

2007-10-22 07:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I consider you! once you reside with roommates you could no longer purely have each little thing your way and accomodating to you. that's what this guy is doing. residing with human beings demands compromise and information of each others desires... no longer their needs! i could attempt chatting with him one greater time and ask him "what could paintings for you?" and start up the barganing from there. in case you physique of techniques it greater answer oriented it's going to be much less confusing and he won't get shielding. do no longer purely tell him he desires to flow, or it desires to renounce because of the fact he will do exactly it out of spite. it relatively is his residing area too, so contain him interior the technique of looking a answer. especially do no longer refer to him once you're dozing because of the fact possibilities are high you're already drained and perchance somewhat grumpy. i could say next time you adult males see one yet another purely ask him for a comprimise and what could paintings for him so as that he can play his video games. this manner you could arise with a user-friendly time to renounce the web stuff and you gets some sleep. If he's being real obdurate purely say that regrettably you will could refer to the RA approximately your concerns and it relatively is too undesirable it had to be this manner.

2016-12-18 11:50:46 · answer #11 · answered by louthan 4 · 0 0

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