2007-10-19 03:55:49 · 5 answers · asked by stefan v 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
That can be hard of course but the main thing to ask is "how much do you have to be around this person? " Is this a co worker? is it a shcool mate? What is it about that person that bothers you? The sound of theire voice? they way they interact with people? Find out what buttons in you this person pushes and change your buttons. Try to take a deep breath and remember that sometimes we can't alway help some of our physical things and that we all need tolerence.
2007-10-19 04:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by memorris900 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to imagine that they are character on a sitcom and how the other characters would react. It's light hearted. Just be glad you're not surrounded by "perfect" people that would make you feel bad about yourself.
Some people may appreciate being kindly told that their behavior is annoying. They can't change if they don't what they're doing! Say things in a joking kind of way with a smile and a laugh at first.
2007-10-19 04:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by *coral* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all each of us need to realize that we are the ones in control of our own emotions -- so if someone does something which is annoying, just realize they are probably in a mood.
If you feel annoyed, you are ALLOWING someone else to control your emotions...
Yes we all react from time to time, but practice controlling your own mood.
Just because others are annoying, or in a bad mood, doesn't mean we have to be also. Does it?
take care of YOU
2007-10-19 04:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really depends who the person is and how well you know him/her. In general, I will try to focus on his/her good points first. Believing that he/she will reform consequentlly. If not, then I'll stay away.
2007-10-19 04:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by betchay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marijuana
2007-10-19 04:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Gonzo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋