How do you ask a girl out the right way...cuz i'm not very good at it.?

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HELP PLZ

Answer 1

There is no right way...Just jump in and give it your best shot. Be yourself, don't pose, act sincere, it's a form of flattery if nothing else.
If she doesn't like you, it won't matter what you say anyway. She's going to say no. The good news is, if she likes you, it still doesn't matter what you say, because she'll say yes.

Answer 2

There isn't like a right way, if you ask her out and she says yes then that's the right way.

There are things to avoid, don't be desperate or nervous if you seem totally inexperienced she'll wonder why any other girls didn't go out with you before.

Don't be phony, if you don't have a lot of experience then don't act like you do -be cool and confident -and mostly honest.

Don't get wrapped up in a single subject that you might be interested in and she is not -in short don't be a nerd. Keep the conversation loose and let her do most of the talking.

Show some interest in her. Let her know that you're asking her out because there is something special about her and not because she's the only available girl around.

Don't think about being good at it or not, part of this whole process is out of your hands -it's her decision. Be your best self I bet everything will work out.

Answer 3

The best way to ask a girl out is to start by approaching her with a simple greeting. Make a little small talk - compliment her on something - her hair, her outfit, maybe something she did well that you noticed. Then, just ask her casually, "Hey, I'm not sure if you're busy or not this weekend, but if you like (fill in the blank), maybe you'd want to go to (music or movie venue) with me?" Then it's all up to her. She'll take it from there!
Don't be nervous - I know, easier said than done, right? But, really, once she realizes you're asking her out, she's bound to get a little nervous herself! Above all else, be confident! It goes a long way. Remember, there's no way to get a date unless you ask! She's not a mind-reader. Just be sweet, and she'll be receptive.

Answer 4

Here's something that you must remember:

IF YOU BEHAVE AS IF WHAT A WOMAN THINKS OF YOU IS IMPORTANT, THEN YOU'LL BE VERY LIKELY TO DO
SOMETHING TO MAKE HER NOT FEEL ATTRACTION TOWARDS
YOU.

Remember, ATTRACTION isn't a "logical" process.
It really doesn't make very much sense (until you
understand how it works, that is).

Just because a woman SAYS that she doesn't
"like" a certain "type" of guy doesn't mean that
she can't feel a POWERFUL ATTRACTION for a guy of
this "type".

Are you with me here?

ATTRACTION is an emotional and physical
RESPONSE.

A "type" is a PREFERENCE.

They are TWO TOTALLY DIFFERENT THINGS.

Here's a good example: Women are universally
more interested in taller men. If you ask a woman
what "type" of "height" ISN'T her type, she'll say
something like "short guys" or "guys who are
shorter than me" etc.

I have NEVER met a woman in my entire life who
said "I like shorter guys". Never.

But guess what?

I have at least 4 or 5 friends who are in the
5'2" to 5'6" range that are UNBELIEVABLE with
women. They ALL date beautiful women who are
taller than them.

So what's going on here?

ATTRACTION is what's going on.

So, when you ask me how to use a Cocky & Funny
line to turn a "perceived deficit" around, the
FIRST thing I have to say is, "Stop thinking of it
as a deficit".

First, you need to stop caring what a woman
thinks of you ALL-TOGETHER.

Completely.

Totally.

100%.

If you care what she thinks of you, then you're
probably going to start acting like a total WUSS,
and you're going to screw things up INSTANTLY.

Women don't feel ATTRACTION for men who look to
them for approval.

Women feel ATTRACTION for men who are strong,
independent, and not affected by the opinions of
others.

Answer 5

First off, if you are going somewhere where you may be interested in someone- look in the damn mirror before leaving your house. If you look like a bum, it doesnt matter how nice you are. If you are going out with some other people and cant do it yourself, ask for the bo/breath/buger check.

I wont go into fashion here, but it can be important. Little things like the right shoes or belt can turn your everyday lame outfit into something the women will keep looking at in the bar. Then again, you can take it too far and come off as stuck up or gay, so it is a fine line.

After you have the appearance on point, you need to do a few things. First, initiate eye contact. If she is looking at you and will meet your gaze for a second or two, then you have to initiate verbal contact if you are interested. Do it on your way to do something, like get food or a drink or whatever else. It can be as easy as just introducing yourself and giving a compliment, but then ohh hold on I was just going to get my drink, maybe we can talk a little later... then you walk away. Stay away for a while, don't look at her and most importantly, look confident even if it is an act, and look fun. Don't be the silent lump of poop in the corner of the booth. She's watching you, even if you dont know it. Later in the night, if you catch her alone at the bar or dancing or whatever, then go in and start a new conversation. If she is open to it, then that is it, you should be able to at least give your number or get hers. If she is sticking in a pack of friends and you dont think you'll be able to talk one on one, go over and make up some excuse, like you havent seen your friends in while and wanted to catch up before coming back- but you will only want to go back over if you can catch her/them looking at you and meet the eye contact again. When you approach the group, you can do it alone or with other guys (assuming you are coming into a group of women)- if you come with guys focus on the girl you want to hit on, if you are alone you will want to talk to the whole group- dont come off as a creep and let them know you are just a cool guy out having some fun. You arent going to stalk their friend and are just trying to get a foot in the door. I would even go so far as to say slightly ignore the girl you are interested in and focus on the other girls- it will make her jealous and when you do get her number and call her back she will feel like she got something or earned something since you spent so much time talking up her friends.

Last but not least- be genuine, and interesting. Do not lie. Have some good stories, have cool hobbies. Be the person someone like you of the opposite sex wants to date. Don't talk about yourself ALL the time, but dont make them do all the talking either.

Answer 6

Depends on how well you're already acquainted with her normally. If you've already had numerous contacts of a friendly manner, it's a lot easier to approach her. If she's almost a stranger to you, you may have to go as far as tell her you've admired her from a distance or know her very little but would like the chance to take her out to get to know her better and have a good time. Ask what she'd like to do unless you already know what she likes or if you have a killer date in mind.

Answer 7

BE CONFIDENT even if you're not. Much of the world acts on the premise of appearance rather than substance and this is another example.

Just ask her " Hey (fill in name), I was wondering if you'd like to go out with me sometime. I really want to see (enter movie title) and would also like to take you with me. What do you think?

If she says, I have to think about it.....then fine. Give her some time. If she says no then don't worry about it. The more you ask out girls the easier it gets. Besides, you will likely learn something about yourself in the process.

Good luck Casanova!

Answer 8

The best way I have ever been asked out was when he told me that he was interested in me and wanted to take me out to see if there could be something more. The most honest approach is always the best, and who doesn't want to hear that someone likes them. Anyway you go, don't be extravagant..it's hard to top something great on a first date.

Answer 9

You have to know her well enough to ask her, like you have had classes together or know each other from working together, or something.

Then just either call her on the phone and ask her "do you want to go out to dinner with me on Friday? I was thinking we could go to Johnny Carinos and then a movie?"

make it clear you are asking her on a date, not just saying, would you like to come to a party at my house where she thinks you might be inviting lots of people and not just her. Make it clear it is a date between the 2 of you.

Answer 10

If you just ask her out right of the bat chances are she'll just say no. Talk to her a little bit first, get to know her, her likes dislikes and such. Let her get a feel for you. Be her friend first.