Boyfriend and i always spend time with each other familys as dont have own place yet.Boyfriends parents are going away this weekend and brother who he lives wants to come with us!!! Has he no respect for our space or relationship?Brother is single We are all in our 30's.Trys to make us feel guilty for leaving him!!!!. Shouldnt have even been mentioned so whats his problem?
2007-10-19 02:35:41 · 4 answers · asked by Australia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He has "clingy" issues.
2007-10-19 02:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what is problem might be, however, if you don't want the brother tagging along say "no"....
You can't be a "YES" person all of the time -- if you feel like saying NO because you want space and privacy, then do so. This brother is in his 30's and can take care of himself, and entertain himself just fine.
No one can make you feel guilt, or anything you do not wish to feel. It's not your problem.
Have fun, and dont' worry about entertaining a man who is in his thirties, for heaven sake!
2007-10-19 09:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is beyond a grown up, if he's in his 30's. I'm not sure what he is doing living at home with mom and dad anyway, but you don't have any responsibility towards him.
2007-10-19 10:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to trot on! He's a big boy - he can handle it!! You and your fella need your time!!
2007-10-19 10:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋