But say you're very religious, and you're love is going to get executed the next day. YOu're not sure whether he loves you back, but this is the last night you will have with him.
Would you have sex with him, even if it is out of wedlock?
2007-10-19 01:00:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My boyfriend is not goign to get executed lol. it's hypothetical
2007-10-19 01:07:19 · update #1
Voiceofreason:)))lol
2007-10-19 01:10:58 · update #2
how much do you want to please God compared to pleasing yourself?
2007-10-19 01:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by jesussaves 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I expected them to nullify all the 18k gay marriages that took place. I'm still very, very disappointed that they upheld Prop 8 (*shakes fist* >_<), but not that shocked. However! I predict that this won't last long. It's incredibly unfair, for one thing. I mean, it's wonderful that the thousands of LGBT people who managed to get married will keep their marriages and rights, of course. But it's incredibly unfair that they have them and no other gay people in the state will be able to get the same rights. Something will have to give somewhere, and soon. They'll either nullify the marriages completely somehow or we'll have another state to add to the victory list. I think it'll be the latter. :) P.S. - I freakin agree, re: the word 'marriage'. Marriage is nothing but a set of laws created by the government and we damn well deserve to CALL it marriage, whether it's two women, two men, or a man and a woman binding themselves into the contract. Calling it 'civil union', even if every single right is on the books precisely the same as those for marriage, down to the last comma and apostrophe, that still makes it separate and unequal.
2016-05-23 16:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by flor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That is a sin called fornication. You will find over 30 times in the Bible were it is considered a sin.
Marry him, and then you can do whatever you want sexually. It is possible to get married while on prison awaiting execution.
(If he was going to be executed the next day, he would be locked away in a prison where you could not be having sex with him anyways, so the whole question is kind of pointless.)
2007-10-19 01:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by dewcoons 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So your not sure whether he loves you, so you go and sleep with him to prove what? What happens if you produce a child? the child grows up without a father. or a father that commited such a crime that he got the death penility? Furthermore, most Good men would be hesitent to start a realitionship with a women with a basterd child, who's father was put to death, so not only have you screwed up the childs future but yours as well. What good could come out of this? Especaily considering as you said, "your're not sure whether he loves you back"
2007-10-19 01:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
These answers are hilarious.
1/3 of all american children are born out of wedlock, and most of those are to christian parents. And these are ones that didn't use protection, how many more have sex, but prevent pregnancies?
2007-10-19 01:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex before Marriage
Sex before marriage is a heinous sin in the sight of GOD ((Allah)), and Allah has forbidden ‘zina’ for the believers.
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 24 Surah Noor verses 2-3:The woman and the man guilty of ‘zina’ flog each of them with a hundred stripes: let not compassion move you in their case in a matter prescribed by Allah if ye believe in Allah and the Last Day: and let a party of the Believers witness their punishment. Let no man guilty of ‘zina’ marry any but a woman similarly guilty or an Unbeliever; nor let any but such a man or an Unbeliever marry such a woman: to the Believers such a thing is forbidden.
Sex before marriage is a heinous sin in the sight of Allah, and Allah has forbidden ‘zina’ for the believers.
The people who have committed this gross and heinous sin in the past, they should immediately turn to Allah and make sincere Taubah and repent for their sin; and make a solemn covenant with Allah that they will not do ‘zina’ ever again, and fulfill the covenant they have made with Allah. If one turns back to Allah and makes sincere Taubah or repentance, it is expected Allah will be Merciful to them and forgive them their sin. For Allah indeed is Very Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 39 Surah Zumur verses 53-54:(O Prophet) say: “O My servants who have wronged their own souls….Do not despair of Allah’s Mercy! Surely, Allah forgives all sins. He indeed is the All Forgiving, All Merciful. Return to your Lord and submit to Him before the scourge overtakes you; for then you may get no help from anywhere.”
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
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2007-10-20 05:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by GeNtLeMaN from LoNDoN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young.
Sex is one of the things that causes two married people to have fond feelings for each other. Sex for having sex has no further use than going to the bathroom and satisfying a physical need.
Thus in your example, there would be no reason for sex. Why would you ruin your chances to have a holy married life with someone else?
2007-10-19 01:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Fuzzy 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
This sounds more like a hypothetical question than a real situation, but in either case, the Bible STILL says "NO!"
When God gave us His Laws, He didn't give them for us to analyze or judge which ones we keep. "It's the DOERS of the Law that are justified." Otherwise, the Bible tells us, we make ourselves judges, and God has NOT handed over the baton for us to judge God and His Laws.
2007-10-19 01:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by no1home2day 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
youll be grieving to think about the complete sex act and anyway the guys guarding him wont allow
2007-10-19 02:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not even sure this man loves you back!!?!! the answer is............
1) u need to mentally mature a little, before going down this road
2) realize that you will find someone else, this person IS NOT the only one out there
3) yes it will make your heart ache something terrible but remember.....thats just the way life is.
4) it wasn't your fate to be with him
2007-10-19 01:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Somehow I've never found in the Bible (the New Testament) that you must walk down the aisle, say "I do" and sign a paper. I guess it's all in there, though, right? Sort of made up stuff by churches, not commandments as far as I can see. Or am I really, really wrong?
2007-10-19 01:07:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋