Do black guys that date out of their race and then come back, do they have problems readjusting?

Question

I met this black man who was married to an Japanese woman he met overseas while in the military. Long story short, they had a kid and stayed together for about 10 years. He recently divorced her this year and as a black woman when i look at his kid, i just cant seem to get over how asian looks. It is a constant reminder of where he was and with who. I am not racist but sometimes i belive that he tries to compare, he even said i looked like an asian woman once, and i know damn well that i dont. I am over 150 lbs and bronze colored with short hair. This asian woman he used to be married to was short and looked like your typical small stature woman. I even asked him if he was comfortable coming back home to a fullfigured black woman after being with a woman of this type for so many years. It has been difficult, i would say, for the both of us. Should i just leave him

Answer 1

I really doubt it has anything to do with race

Answer 2

Why would you leave someone, because of that. If that is the only issue, that can be worked out. Don't chase away a good man, because of his past, because if we all did that none of us would have anybody. I wish people would stop looking at the outside, and concentrate on the inside. You are who you are, and something must have pulled you guys together, so work on that, and don't be to demanding, that's the fastest way to chase someone away.

Answer 3

BABY'S GOT BACK!!!