I have this friend (girl) I made in school and we've kept in touch for over a year even though we've moved to different states. I went to see her once recently and it went fine..we moved over the friendship line a bit (kissed but not sex) but have just been friendly since that on our chatting. I invited her to visit me and she said 'i will, but its not easy to find you there (true as i travel a lot)' then i asked her again and she said she'd love to as soon as she gets some free time...she's got a heavy school workload (and I know that's true). Do you think I have any chance with her? I really like her. Do you think after being 'with' a girl like kissing and all that ,she would want to visit you if she were not interested in you romantically?
2007-10-19 00:10:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i dont think she would want to visit you if she didnt think something of you after you have kissed...
she probably is very busy thats all...i would make an effort to travel and see her ...pick a weekend and put it to her and see what she says.
2007-10-19 00:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion is that long distance relationships don't work. Of course that is my opinion, and not what my heart believes. Currently, I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, even though i told her since we met that distant relationships don't work. I believe you should keep her as a friend. Keep in touch occasionally, this does not mean everyday; she needs to have a life too. You should have fun with her (does not mean sex) when you can, so if she comes visit go out! Just be prepared that it's not going to last.
Now to your question. She is interested in you romantically i believe. if a person is making time and spending money to see you, then she definitely has interest in you. You should tell her all your feelings in person before she leaves. I hope this helps. I hope things work out between you two.
2007-10-19 07:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whichever way, she likes you otherwise she wouldn't want to come. Normally if a friendship has crossed the line and is regretted then they normally don't want contact with that person at all as the friendship has been ruined. Your friend is probably waiting for a sign from you to show her that you want things to go further, just like you are with her. So make that move - invite her over at the earliest opportunity and let love happen!
2007-10-19 09:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Chucksey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls feel uneasy visiting a guy. If you are interested in her, make an effort to visit her more often. I believe she cares or she would not still be communicating. Yes, you do have a good chance with her but I think till her schedule clears up and she feels more comfortable you need to go see her. Hey, what ya waiting, go now.
2007-10-19 07:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you, but since you are travel and she is in school, it might be hard to come together. Since you travel all the time, it might be easier for you to go to her. That way you can get to know each other better.
2007-10-19 07:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a pathetic loser. back to crazy school for you. just dont go buying any guns. or maybe perhaps your a homo.......then go bum her
2007-10-19 08:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by woonoel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋