we have been going out for 5 months, and lots of people keep tying to break us up because a lot like her and a lot like me. Sometimes her friends even support it, and tell my gf that I was flirting with another girl and that I'm going to leave her for my ex, and stuff like that. How can i get her friends to stop doing all this stuff to me. My girlfriend says that I'm great and all, but they cant stand me.
2007-10-18 18:17:50 · 6 answers · asked by Willy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you get her friends to stop...well, if they like you but not the fact that you're going out with her then they SHOULD respect the fact that the two of you are together. If they just have something against you then maybe you should have a sit-down talk, one-on-one with your girlfriend about what to do about all the drama that's surrounding the two of you. Tell her exactly what they've said and ask her if either she or you can talk to them about stopping. It's key to get her in on it because, duh, they're her friends. She'll most likely appreciate the fact that you're asking her for her guidance about her friends and you may not have to do anything, she may tell you to just blow them off and not listen to them. If she says that, then ignore what they're saying about how she's too good for you.
Focus on your girlfriend, enjoy a date together, and blow of the pack of wild animals you call friends for a night or two. Most importantly, I think you should prove to YOURSELF that you ARE good enough for her and do some sweet things for her every once in a while when she's upset or when she's not expecting it...post-its are a good tool to use to send a short "I love you, baby" where she might look...and you never know, she could show that to her friends and prove them wrong about you.
2007-10-18 18:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by PseudoSlySpyderGuyLied 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she does leave you cuz of what they say then she is not the kind of person who thinks for herself or values you for who you are. Who would want someone so shallow? Think about it.
Is she telling them to back off?
At your age your dealing with boys and girls who are immature not men and women who know what they want yet.
2007-10-19 01:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them bully u around and just ignore their comments you are better than that and just keep your head up high. Just tell her that she is the one for you and everybody else is trying to break u guys up. Just keep your self-esteem and confidence up high and you'll get through it!
2007-10-19 01:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by ladybugwith7up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the troublemakers. Tell them how much you love her, and tell them to mind their own business, and stay out of your relationship.
2007-10-19 01:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what??i can only say one thing to you...if you really love your gf and you think that you love her too....then prove it to all people that you love each other....especially to her friends....let them see that you really care for her, you really love her and that you can do anything just for her...anyways, it's not the matter of you and her friends....it's you and your gf....don't mind them anyways...bec. love don't care what people say....it is what your partner say....so, go for it guy....you should prove them your love to your gf....because i know in your heart you don't want to lose her...gud luck boy....and god bless your relationship...
2007-10-19 01:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Inanna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are nasty little CU*NTS who will continue doing this for the rest of your life. If you decide to stay with her then you need to decide whether you can put up with it or not.
2007-10-19 01:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋