This girl "Nicole" contacted me and I think she likes me. Why else would she be really interested in engaging me? I am in 11th grade and she is in 9th grade, but we are so perfect for each other it seems.Our personalities are almost made for each other. The problem is, neither one of us knows how to break the ice and just tell each other that we like each other. I get really nervous when I talk to her, and I don't get to talk to her very often because my 11th grade life is alot more busy than her 9th grade one. It always gets so awkward when we talk. What kind of topics should I bring up. How do I ease into a sentence so I can tell her I like her,...a note, ..words?
Any website references to advice ect would be great.
2007-10-18 17:57:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im afraid that I won't have time to have a relationship with her though, and that scares me.
2007-10-18 18:07:04 · update #1
Do you have anything in common? Sports.. music... hobbies? It's easier if you have things in common than just thinking they're really attractive. If you're involved with anything in your school... like sports or anything, invite her to a game :) I'm sure she'd rather have you break the ice because it's "traditional" and there's a less likely chance that you will get upset in front of her if she said she just liked you as a friend than if she was rejected. Confidence is sexy and shy is cute... so a little of both is a good mix. But you should tell her in person.. maybe after school or something so there's no friends around? Good luck :)
2007-10-18 18:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tano A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking about anything! School,news,weather anything she is interested in that you know of and then just kind be like "hey what are you doing this weekend?...ya want to hang out/go see a movie?". But ya got to be a man a ask her out...if she says yes GREAT! But if she says no don't let it get you down because there are a lot of other girls out there as much as you think that there aren't right now there are...but most likely she will say yes:).
2007-10-18 18:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Caryn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for a coffee or an ice-cream after school. Then sit in that cafe and just talk. When you feel right, you reach over and hold her hand and say, "You know, I really think the world of you."
Hold her hand while walking.
Walk on the side closest to the street.
If she looks chilly, you take your jacket off and put it around her shoulders, and when you do that, you can keep one arm about her shoulders.
2007-10-18 18:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you have a suprise for her, n then holiday together with her right this moment to the cinemas...that way ul have your want fulfilled and could be taking her alongside too. Be slightly leniant and enable her % the movie.. yet another factor, its each and every now and then good to do issues which others like too..you care approximately her thoughts meaning you fee her frindship. i could sacrifice so plenty better than observing a movie for a chum I treasure. regardless of the undeniable fact that if u relatively ought to choose for the movie attempt the 1st selection.
2016-10-07 05:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by dorthy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm ive been in a realationship for about 1 and 1/2 years and i use to be like that. acctually this is the second time we went out because the first time i was to nervious to talk to her but the second time we went out it was alot better as u can see. so dont be nervius just go for it dude
2007-10-18 18:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by fordbronco84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts kinda wierd my one friend nicole likes this junior but shes kinda a slut tho. kinda annoying. but w/e. yea but hang out w/ her n her bestfriend n ur bestfriend it will make it eisier
2007-10-18 18:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋