i am seeing not officially dating this bi girl...long story short she is not sure whether she likes guys or girls more, i mentioned the thought of a her and i and i got the maybe but right now you are a good friend....wth? i need help what should i do in this situation this girl is amazing got a great personality and is so unique from all the other girls i have met. so what do you think i should do be her friend and see about a relationship in the future? we hang out like 4-5 times a week these days too! thanks for all the help!
2007-10-18 17:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by jayfizzle1002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She told you she's not ready yet...so respect that. Be her friend like you have been and wait it out. You never know what it might lead to. And if it leads to only being friends, well then at least you have that right? Be supportive of her, don't be pushy, and let her come to you.
2007-10-18 17:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kiki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will learn, hopefully sooner than later, that if a person isn't ready for a relationship, you will find a way to either stay friends or if you have too many romantic feelings involved, you may want some distance. It seems your friend has good cause not to be in a relationship right now; sexually she is trying to identify what SHE wants. By doing so, she is foremost, being responsible and mature and seconsly she is saving another person a potentially great deal of pain. Be cool, go at YOUR pace, while she goes at HERS. If the two of you happen to fall in sync with each other, well then, it will be worth the wait. Blessings.......
2007-10-18 18:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by jmizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you really want out of all this. I wouldn't rush into anything. Just hang out and let whatever happens happen. To be honest, if she is into girls, I am not sure you should think of her romantically. I believe you will just get hurt in the long run. You are the only one who can decide if it is worth it.
2007-10-18 18:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like a friend until she figures out what she wants. Avoid going out with her this often because then you'll be her back-up. Just cool down a bit for the moment. Good luck.
2007-10-18 18:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Princess A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her "friend"- & date other girls. If She doesn't like it- ask her for a Commitment. If she doesn't care- keep looking. It's a big Sea...-& there are too many "fish" in it -to waste your time waiting around... :)
2007-10-18 18:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating Tila Tequila? haha just kidding...
2007-10-18 18:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her boyfriend i she likes you. Or if you like her and if you see that no one else is better then wait for her.
2007-10-18 17:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend and if something happens, let her decide that
2007-10-18 18:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your both seeking identity..don't push and you will have a great friend for life or a great wife of a friend.
2007-10-18 17:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Oldmansea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it hurt to wait and see.
2007-10-18 17:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by DonPedro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋