what will you do if future in laws gets on your way?

Question

my future in laws (my bf's sisters & mom) lives in California and we have the same culture. when his mom found out about me (when we became gf & bf), his mom got mad and wants his son to marry the daughter of her friend. but my bf doesnt like her. his mom was mad at my bf and to me. and now, his sister is mad at me also and i dont know whats the reason why. maybe she doesnt like me. even im good to them. she'll be coming home in our native country to visit her dad. now im afraid if we'll have a cat fight since we had a word war over the email accusing me of being a user and all. but its not all true!
how will i deal her if we will see each other?? i dont like to have a fight w/ her. my bf isnt coming home so no one will protect me. what will i do? will i show up if ever we'll meet?

Answer 1

I would avoid both of them. If your boyfriend is not there then why do you need to see them? When he is there he needs to tell them both that he loves you and that is the way that it is. He needs to tell them that you will not be treated with disrespect and if they cannot accept that then they can stay away from both of you. You cannot let them dictate how to live or who he will marry. You have to live your life for you and they will have to get over it.

Answer 2

If you're strong, you'll stand up for yourself. If you weaken, they'll make your life miserable. Also, they'll tell your boyfriend you're weak and it will be a mess.

Stand up to them, then be pissed at your boyfriend. Inform him you don't have time for those games and break up with him, immediately.

He's obviously a Mama's boy and she'll always have control.

Dump him, Leave him, Run AWAY!

Answer 3

Find a very gross man to introduce her to. Insist that she marry him. Tell her it's only right that you get to chose a spouse for her since she wants to do the same for your b/f.