Im not a shy person but Im always scared that people will think Im fat,ugly and stupid,Ive tried so hard to end it all but I am still feeling this way I have now for about two years Im 13 what can I do?
2007-10-18 13:47:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I didnt say I wanted to end it all I said I tried hard to end the feelings I have I dont want to kill myself
2007-10-18 14:00:34 · update #1
Hey.
I understand how you feel.I dont have much confidence my self im 19 and ive been like this for nearly 4 years,theres days were i just wont it all to end,but ill never take my life,but if i got run over tomorrow i wouldnt care.
No matter how much people tell me im beautiful i dont believe or see it.I think im fat and im only 61/2 stone and im 5 foot so im tiny.But its our heads they control the way we feel and its no good,cannabis has done this to me as ive smoked it everyday for the last 4years but from yesterday ive given up.As i know im just turning down the wrong road.I want to become a model and i know i could make it.Babe please visit your doctors and they will give you the right help.Goodluck.x
2007-10-18 19:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Bαявιє Dσℓℓ ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God loves you, and so do I. God doesn't judge us by looks...He judges the heart...and HE is our judge, not classmates and bullies.
When they insult you, realize they're just "immature" 13 year old children, who don't know any better.
Be nice to them, don't hate them, and they'll "grow up".
Fat and ugly are only "skin deep" outer beauty things. Don't judge a book by it's cover!!!
I think you may be "beautiful" inside. When the pretty girls are old and wrinkled, you will still be beautiful on the inside!!!
You are way too young to give up like this. You don't seem stupid to me.
Think positive! God has a plan for YOUR life!!!
You may not be a "catch" now, but give yourself time! You will NOT stay an awkward "over-weight" 13 year old forever.
Now is the time to make changes. Don't panic. You have youth on your side!
It is 10 times harder to change, when you are twice this age.
If you need to change, start now!
Spend the next 13 years getting thinner, prettier and smarter.
If you do what you always did, you'll get the results you always got!
Maybe you won't hate yourself so much if you eat sensibly (not "diet", just eat "healthy", and the weight loss will come).
Do chores for mom to excercise. Do good things for others, and you'll feel good!
Give yourself another dozen years to change into a beautiful swan!!!
Imagine how glad some guy will be to find you, when you hit your peak a dozen years from now.
2007-10-18 21:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 13 and you want to end it all? Get a grip - there's only one of you in the whole wide world - just be who you are and dont worry about what anyone else thinks! Stay with us!
2007-10-18 20:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by geoff29345 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
-Hello--
fat ugly stupid
your words
fat you can change---get into healthy diet
ugly ----no
stupid ---no
come on you haven't started living yet and all this negativity -OK get up think positive --today I'm going to do good for other people and dont think about yourself all the time
good luck
2007-10-18 21:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Elen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey there please do not think like you do.... honestly i am a lot older than you an believe me i did feel like you do for years...... but see in the future you will be so glad you are just you xxx
2007-10-18 21:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by nightowl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about this. you are the best.
2007-10-18 21:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by william 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋