Just take a look at my avatar picture. I have given it a thought to go on with online dating (which I'm doing for a year by now without success) or even ever asking a nice girl out for a date, but just thinking of my face...maybe I shouldn't. I'm too ugly and girls deserve a better person than me. What do you think of it? NO INTELLIGENT answers please, JUST right WHAT YOU THINK. You can't hurt my feelings anyway...after all the thoughs I have had about myself. Please be honest. Thanks in advance.
2007-10-18 12:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by seafish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see my yahoo 360 profile for a larger photo
2007-10-18 12:55:29 · update #1
I can't see it. Your avatar is too small.
EDIT: I see you now, and trust me, I've seen worst. I'm being completely honest. I wanna give you some pointers though. Maybe you should try losing some weight, changing your hairstyle and losing the glasses. Those are the main things that kind of bring your look down in my opinion.
But lemme tell you something. I have a crush on this guy right now, who in everyone else's opinion, is extremely ugly. Yet, I honest to God think he is so attractive. There's another guy who I've just met as well, and I think he's so cute! But again, everyone else says he's unattractive. (Haha, maybe I'm just really attracted to unattractive guys...?) But seriously, there could be another girl like me who will happen to find you really attractive one day too. Every one is different. And I hate to be cliche, but beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. If you never find a girl who likes you just based on looks, then your personality can always play a really strong role regardless of what you look like. I remember this not-so-great looking guy who I met awhile ago, and normally I wouldn't give him a second look. But his personality was so great, and he was so funny, that I seriously wanted to date him shortly after I met him. There is hope for you yet! I will be honest about other experiences I've had though. There is this one guy who likes me right now, and he is SO nice and friendly, yet I consider him to be really unattractive and I don't want to date him because of that. He actually looks similar to some other guy who I think is cute, so I don't know why I think he's ugly, but anyway! That just goes to show that everyone is different and everyone has different views about everything. There will be lots of girls out there who think you are unattractive, but you will find at least ONE person who thinks you are amazing. And please don't talk about yourself so negatively! It's not right for you to say "girls deserve a better person". Feeling that way will only bring your self-esteem down, and negativity pushes others away. Of course you are worthy of someone! Everyone is. Be optimistic, be hopeful, and take life one day at a time. Show people your great personality, work on your look, and someone out there will think you are awesome. Good luck!!! =)
2007-10-18 12:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by oh geez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to boost your self esteem and confidence! Though your avatar is too small to see, you're young yet and have a LOT of time before you should worry about not having a gf....you're fine and need to be nicer to yourself....that's all....
2007-10-18 12:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 03:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't online date--go to a CHATROOM and use the pic as your avatar. Sooner or later, somn girl will start a chat with you--and after that, the sky's the limit !!!
2007-10-18 12:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like hot guys and really looks do matter. but dont give up! at least u have the guts!i m crushing on this hot guy for years n i dont have the guts to go up to him and ask him out! i cant really see ur picture but just go ahead ur still young! so n have fun! life will eventually fall in place.
2007-10-18 12:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that looks dont matter that much... i mean i like for a boy to be cute but what i look for 1st is personality and charm...
i hope i could help you!
2007-10-18 12:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by hayzerbeam2295 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋