i also dream that he is gay. has any 1 ever exprience this before? if so, what came out of the dream? what did it mean to you? please let me know! thanks for all the help!! = l
2007-10-18 11:17:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
To me it probably is telling you that he is cheating and that he is gay. It's probably telling you to find someone else. I haven't had these types of dreams. Hope I helped.
2007-10-18 11:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think deep down you know or sense he is cheating, being gay may mean he is deceptive in other ways as well (lying, finding alibies, making excuses,) does he seem to have less money lately, be busier, work more or later, hang out a lot with the guys, joined sports team or health club,come around less, change in behavior, not as intimate, more tired?, but you would truly have to look into yourself. Maybe you would rather not believe or admit it? I could be wrong, but why else would you dream of such a thing, if it were not a subconscious thought being brought forward. Either way it's your dream, and your to deal with. With any luck, i'll be wrong.
2007-10-18 11:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by ferochira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just laughing because I've had the same dream about the cheating. Don't know about you but I trust my man with all I have. Usually if you think he may cheat on you, you could have those kinda dreams. Actually I'm laughing because I never had a dream he was gay, that's to funny. It's just dreams girl, don't let them get to you, they don't mean a thing.
2007-10-18 11:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This dream does not mean that your boyfriend is cheating on you, nor does it mean that he is gay. Dreams represent the suppressed subconscious, which for you manifests itself in the FEAR that your boyfriend may be cheating on you or that he may be gay. My advice would be to put it out of your mind, or better yet, talk to your boyfriend about it in a nice and non-confrontational way.
2007-10-18 11:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by socalcrazydiamond 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My girl often dreams that I am cheating on her. I know I am not, so I can say her dreams are purely fictional. I would say that her dreams represent her feelings more than they have to do with me. Perhaps being cheated on is something she fears and has issues with. So it's on her mind even when she sleeps. Could be similar for you.
2007-10-18 11:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the meaning of dreams is the opposite of what happens in the dream, or a visualization of our everyday fears. Maybe you are afraid he will cheat or turn gay, or maybe he is very manly and loyal to you???
2007-10-18 13:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by thinkaspell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're very insecure in your relationship. Whether there is a realistic reason for you to feel that way or not, the only one who knows the answer to that is you. It could be that you are just too insecure, or it could be that he is sending off signals. It also sounds kind of like if he were to break up with you, you would rather that his excuse be that he's gay, instead of that he found another girl he would rather be with. It sounds as though you don't feel he is really all that into you....
2007-10-18 12:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating; a dream of the contrary, if you dreamed of being cheated, you can expect a stroke of luck; however, if you were the cheater, you can expect to be cheated. Contrary to gay? So, do you get the picture? He is not gay, oh nooooo.xx
2007-10-18 13:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams are made up symbols that are created in the sub-conscious to help us deal with things in the slepp state that we can't or won't deal with in the awake state. without being aware of it your sub-conscious is always working and picking up little bits of pieces of information here and there. it is my opinion that maybe you are on the right track but the only way that you are going to know for sure is to find a good time a peacful,quiet time to sit down with him and have a good old fashioned talk with each other. but lay down some ground rules first. (i.e. no yelling, be open-minded,no name calling, and if things get out of hand that you both take a time out and cool down and then continue) Good Luck!
2007-10-18 11:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by christina c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, follow your heart. the point of having a relationship is to learn to trust one another. Life is full of suprises. If your boyfriend has a secret, let him know that you will always talk to him if you had a secret, and let him know it seems to be a void in your relationship. Good Luck, and i hope i helped. .
2007-10-18 11:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by SiLveR RiBBoN 1 2 9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋