I get low grades in school and one time I cheated because I wanted to get good marks, got caught and got called out of everyone so know I am an anti-social btch/ cheating liar in my school. And my friends doesnt even like me because Im too shy and I dont feel like opening up because I feel that I will get judged and I dont have anything to say and they think Im being stuck up and mean so they ignore me now and I have no friends.. My parents physically & emotionally abuse me when I do something wrong, because I am SO stupid and I hate myself for making mistakes, so I deserve to get beat up.. I think about being suicidal everyday and I feel so alone, so should I kill myself?
2007-10-18 10:56:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hey. What you are experiencing sounds very familiar to me. I was 14 when I first started feeling depressed and suicidal (i'm 25 now) And the answer is, no, you shouldn't give up. Why? because you have stuff to live for. Things you havn't done. Things you could be.... Ok, so you cheated on some test, and your grades aren't the best.... We've all cheated at something or other, and grades are NOT everything... There are thousands of celebrities and millionaires and successful business people out there who were not great at school, and told they wouldn't amount to anything. And if your friends ignore you, then they aren't "friends", and you are better off without them. Find some new ones, or join a new group or something. Get a hobby, think of something that you would really enjoy doing. Write a journal, that really works for me. A good exercise is to write down a list of positive things. Do it how YOU want... a chart, or a list, whatever works for you... Write down all the things you could do with your life that are good.. all the places in the world you wanna visit.. people you wanna meet, etc. Then stick it somewhere in your room and look at it often. Keep the positive things in your mind. Yeah, I know it sounds cheesy, and you're gonna say, i'm suicidal, how is a list gonna help? And I have been right where you are, so i know that feeling too!! But this is gonna pass, trust me. I'm not perfect, i still get days when i feel like crap and cant get out of bed and feel suicidal, but i am getting there, and writing helps. it works for me. you gotta find something that works for you... it might be something different, maybe distracting your bad thoughts with puzzles or video games or relaxation cds... And you MUST tell someone you are suicidal, because you are going to need a lot of support. Feeling like this is rubbish, and it's not easy to get over, but it CAN be done.
2007-10-18 11:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by pinkygazoo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh no hun. please don't do this. everyone feels that darkness is overcoming them sometimes. i feel like that all the time. its not just you. all those people who think that are liars. who are they to you? and you are not stupid. don't ever think negitive about yourself. and if your parents are abusing you, then you need to call the police or tell an adult. everyone makes mistakes and you do not derserve to get beat up. you never did anything wrong. and sometimes i am a little anti social. and who ever says that you are, they are just jelus that you are a smart, beautiful girl. so, please don't do this. i just want to know that i love you and if i didn't i wouldn't be answering this question now, would i?
2007-10-18 11:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to be down on yourself when talking to God , but God made you , and he did a good job , cause he's perfect , so if you are not exactly what every body is believing you should be , then so what ., you are the mistake god made and , that meens your supose to be that way, so if you don't like you , tell god ,, but remember you are his best work and he is happy with you , you could winde up in an arguement....
2007-10-18 11:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your teacher about your parents abusing you! DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!!!!!!! i dont have that much friends either. BUT DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!!!! if u do that u will feel much worse in the place thats the opposite of heaven! People love you beleive it or not. There are friends out there u have not met yet. Your life isnt complete yet So DONT DO IT!
2007-10-18 11:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please talk to a counselor at your school tomorrow.
Your parents should not be abusing you. Please tell the counselor about them. You do not deserve to feel the way you do. Please do not kill yourself. Get help from your school counselor right away. Good Luck
2007-10-18 11:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Hopefully Helpful 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE DO NOT KILL YOURSELF, GET HELP I USED 2 BE LIKE EXTREMELY SUICIDAL EVER SINCE I WAS LIKE 8 YEARS OLD, GET A THERAPIST OR A PSYCHIATRIST, TRUST ME THEY WILL HELP YOU. !!!!!DON'T KILL YOURSELF!!!!!!
2007-10-18 12:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by anon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the "self" that you hate is just imagined and isn't who you really are....
2007-10-18 11:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋