Im a virgin and i really like this guy. We are planning on having sex but he doesnt know im a virgin. He thinks iv had sex before. Will he know the difference when we do have it?
2007-10-18 07:43:29 · 39 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok lets be serious here.
I am sure all of these other people are scaring you.
You will be "tight" instead of "loose", which may or may not be a clue to him.
Yes you will bleed a little bit (some ppl more than others) but more than likely you will not bleed until it is all said and done with.
It wont be a mess and its not that big of a deal (the blood part).
Just dont panic.
It may hurt a little , but the more foreplay that yall 2 introduce the less it will hurt. and the pain will not be that bad.
Have fun and be safe.
If you need anything else just let me know.
2007-10-18 07:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren_Brooke_Reed 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If this guy like you as you like him, tell him now today that you are a virgin,
just because you never had sex with anyone he's not going to be up set, but him might get upset you he dose be live him can trust in the the future.
Be ture to yourself and the one your with.
Happy hunting
2007-10-18 07:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely won't know the difference. When I did it the first time, my boyfriend did not believe I was a virgin. That is why I don't think he will know. But why don't you tell him? I think you should so he will maybe be gentle and not want to f@%k the **** out of you lol.
2007-10-18 07:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Leena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should tell him... why do you WANT him to think that you are not a virgin?!?1? Being a virgin is something to be proud of and you should rethink having sex with him if you cant even be honest with him!!!1
2007-10-18 07:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by younglady215 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how many times he has had sex before, and with how many different girls. If it has only been a few times with the same girl, not very likely he will notice. If he is pretty experienced, he should be able to tell.
A big give away will be your reaction to it...
Just tell him the truth BEFORE hand.
2007-10-18 07:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person. It depends on how tight you are and also on if you bleed. just relax its ok but make sure you tell him before hand.. Losing your virginity is a very BIG deal and make sure he goes slow with u. Good Luck and dont worry you cant mess up!
2007-10-18 07:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most definitely will. The first time is always a little akward and you should probably just tell him. Most guys would be totally cool with you being a virgin.
2007-10-18 07:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Punchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse he will. Things are tighter for a girl down there plus there will be some bleeding. Your cherry will be popped and you may experience some pain at first. But he will definately know. Alot of guys like to know they are having you for the first time.
2007-10-18 07:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by spleefarella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will "see" "feel" the differance. The term for females after losing there virginity could also be called "popping your cherry". I don't want to get into details.. but yes he will know.. but I'm sure he could careless if you told him.. If anything it would turn him on.
2007-10-18 07:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by juventus0151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely- he will- but if you are a V- for this long- why not wait until you find someone who really love you- I mean guys- they just want to have sex with you and then leave- I like it when in a relationship I don't have sex with my bf at all, because that keeps them closer to you and want to be with you more
2007-10-18 07:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by priya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋