How do I know if a guy just wants sex?

Question

It seems as though most guys these days are only interested in sex. I have a guy who's been interested in me for a couple of months and won't letdown, but I've been warned that he's not interested in relationships. If he's still interested in me two months later wouldn't that mean he's actually interested in me for me though? Wouldn't he give up two months later if he was only interested in sex?

he told me he's afraid of relationships because he got hurt once. we've talked about it a little bit. he seems to be on the fence... hence the question lol.

Answer 1

not necessarily, you may be the prize that he is trying ot claim for his trophy case of woman he has successfully slept with. you turning him down for the last two months has made his challenge that much more intriging and rewarding if successful in getting you to have sex with him. the question you need to ask yourself is, what would the two of you do when you are together other than have sex, meaning, what do you have in common with him as in interests or hobbies?

Answer 2

No. To me, two months is still a relatively short time. I mean, most guys do like the girl a bit who they want to have sex with anyway, so its not just ur body that attracts him. There are components of ur personality he finds hot too. But that just attracts him more, it doesn't mean he wants a relationship. Most guys want what they can't have, and once the chase is over, and they've conquered, they move on. I"d say, give it another four months before u decide to date him....not have sex with him...but date him. IF he agrees do date u for about three months before any kind of sex, then yeah, go for it. Yes, this is hard, but I feel that this is the only way u'll know if he wants u for u, and not just whats in ur pants.

Answer 3

The only way to be sure is to make him wait for it, and to see if he is willing to build a relationship before sex enters the picture. Being "interested in you" doesn't really require any investment on his part. Being in a relationship with you requires much more.

If he is just looking for sex, chances are that he is doing so with lots of women simultaneously. Expressing his interest to you takes a couple minutes at most, a price he would be willing to pay for another prospect.

If you are interested in him, suggest exploring a relationship through dating and other common activities. Then, wait and see. You'll know when you know.

Answer 4

time is the only sure way to tell if all he wants is sex.....most guys, if that's all they want will move on quickly if you don't give it up, although 2 months is still a little bit on the threshold for the other type.....it's called the "thrill of the hunt" mentality and there are guys out there that see it as a challenge to see what it will take to get those panties off.......if you have been told by someone you consider reliable that he's not into relationships, then give it a little more time....and trust your gut....it's almost never wrong....if you feel that maybe he isn't sincere than he probably isn't.....but give it a little more time and then see if he's still there....if he is maybe he wants more.....and if he isn't then you have your answe....but i've known guys that chased after it for 5 or 6 months just to see if they could get it and then were in the road once they saw they could talk her out of those panties.....

Answer 5

Yeah, usually a guy will give it up after 2 months if he just wants a piece of it, but sometimes he will bug for 4mos if hes too desperate. I totally agree most guys you meet in public now are born losers! You should try to hang out at a more community based place , like a church for example- The " latter-day saints" church is a good one if youre looking for a relationship. Mormans love having kids and therefore LOVE getting married - at least the majority do. Join a singles group there. Back to your question, If he acts really superfical and shallow , like he keeps telling you how "hot" you are and that he would love to just "cuddle" thats a telltale sign.

Answer 6

"Men wanting sex is only an assumption made by those who are desperate for it themselves!"

2 months is a long time to be trying it on if he's just after sex. but on the other hand if you've been playing hard to get, then it may have become a challange to him, and once he's bedded you it'll be over.

I'm guessing that you are not seeing him, if thats the case then date him, without giving him sex, then see whare it goes. if he really wants more then sex he still be there, in another couple of months.

just don't act as though your not interested otherwise you won't get him!

Answer 7

A common myth is that all guys are only interested in sex. Not true. Unfortunately there's no way to really tell upfront, some dudes are really good liars, and most will not give up just after a couple months. I suggest just going on a date with the dude, and see if he tries anything funny.

Don't put too much stock in what you hear from other sources, women can also lie.

Answer 8

you do not have faith in ... do you mean you have faith it would not exist? lol How difficult is it going to be. Hmm. You needless to say are asking a question which no one has the potential to respond to. Why do you anticipate you will get married? Why do you anticipate that having intercourse would be greater durable than chosing a mate? would not is oftentimes paintings any incorrect way around? right that's the subject with intercourse: all and sundry is on the size of 0 to hyper sexpersistent. Do all adult males desire intercourse? No. Do purely approximately all adult males desire intercourse? (hint: there are 7 billion beople on the earth what proportion do you think of had dad and mom that did no longer desire intercourse?) sure. Is it difficult for adult males to no longer have intercourse? sure. Is it painful? sure - it relatively is. So, while you're happy with allowing the "love of your life" discomfort then i assume that makes you the two disciplined or a sociopath. We (many times) generally all have a healthy sexpersistent. Sidetracking that till you're out of school and in a committed courting sounds great - yet your hormones and biology would be working against you. Is it a turn off ? - some adult males will look at it as a challenge and you as a trophy some adult males will appreciate it (and get their intercourse someplace else) some adult males will think of "how immature" and flow each and daily some adult males will think of "me too" and mean it some adult males will say "me too" and *no longer* mean it some adult males will walk away. i could walk away. it relatively is an exceptionally incredibly good concept to no longer stress on it till you're in a committed courting. And while you're making plans on college, and so on. that cannot be for an prolonged time, precise? What obtainable good judgment is there in having a bf without intercourse? isn't clever to me. Having boy associates - ok. yet would not having a bf via definition entail intimacy (no longer inevitably sexual) ? Intimacy between sexual people who're fascinated in one yet another is via definition sexual. good success with that. there are various that communicate the communicate, few who finally end up virgins on their wedding ceremony nighttime. Does that answer your question?

Answer 9

Go on a date or two - if you like him, see him some more.

Do Not Have Sex With Him.

If he introduces you to friends/family, takes you out in public, spends time with you, listens to you, meets your friends, etc. then you can probably be assured that he likes you for you.

Obviously, you're a young woman or this probably would be an issue for you.

Remember - you don't "have" to have sex just because you've got the proper body parts.

Good luck.

Answer 10

Things have not changed since the cavemen, that's why they call it the battle of the sexes. If he tells you he is not interested in a relationship, believe and find someone that does. He is a player, he only wants the chase, once he get you to bed, he will move on to the next challenge.