I have a male friend that always loves talking to me and enjoys my company.
We talk every single day - but past couple of days he hasnt even made an attempt to call or get in touch. No texts - he usually does this when we dont see eachother.
He knows Im a busy person with work. He's fine as well because hes been chatting to other people past couple of days.
So what could be wrong?
How SHOULD I react to his behaviour??
2007-10-18 07:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'll explain a similar situation. I had a girl I did everything with, talked for hours everyday, was comfortable.. Until I started growing feelings for her.. and everytime she mentioned another guy.. I would get crushed.. How she liked this guy, that guy.. I was always the guy she came to when those other one's hurt her. I got tired of it.. I told her how I felt.. I pretty much was let down in a nice way.. after 4 years I said the hell with it.. but what came to that point was me getting over here by slowing stop calling her, picking up my phone, returning the phone calls.. and then it was all done when I told her.. that its over.. I couldn't deal with it.. and that was that.
This was also 4 years ago.
2007-10-18 07:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by juventus0151 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out is to text him and tell him that the two of you haven't been in contact for a while and that you miss him. Asks him if he's doing OK. But NEVER ask him why he did not contact you in the last couple of days. You don't want him to think that you accuse him of something.
There are three most likely scenario here:
1. He's extremely busy with something
2. His cellphone is broken
3. He suddenly realizes that you like him while he can't return your feeling. So he's trying to put some distance between the two of you to make you realize it yourself.
If it's number 3, you can find out that he will stop spending time with you from now on and will never agree to go out with just the two of you.
2007-10-18 07:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by sir_b_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not take him seriously. The fact that he is not contacting you 'especially' when you are not seeing each other spells a lot how he appreciate the friendship. Worse, he could be those who use others when he is bored and forget them when he found new activities, which is = selfish. You are caring enough to notice the change but he is not. So, don't bother about it, or, ask him and say you feel strange, by checking with him if you have offended him somehow.
2007-10-18 07:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i be attentive to i'm no longer truly a guy - sorry - yet I forget approximately approximately men i admire if i won't be able to bypass out with them. If i'm already in a relationship, or if i be attentive to they're no solid for me. Its a defence mechanism to save all in touch. Or he might desire to easily be busy, or attempting to no longer seem too prepared, or someones warned him off you... incredibly some motives - ask him!
2016-10-13 02:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How mature is that? If you like someone, you should keep in as much contact as possible. Every man that has ever been interested in me, has never ignored me. I think its immature behavior and it causes this kind of thing. Call him and ask whats going on.
2007-10-18 07:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating him? Perhaps if you're not he's found someone to date, he sounds like one of the people that will be great friends with you but when he finds a girl he wants, he'll forget you
2007-10-18 07:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by hmr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are so insecure...so they put a sheild over them so they won't get hurt... it's his way of protecting himself...you need to make him aware you do like him and if not they stay quiet...
2007-10-18 07:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Red_Amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, because you are afraid of rejuction cause your not really sure how she will take you liking her.
2007-10-18 07:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Brina.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question
2007-10-18 07:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋