How important is the family unit? That means a Mother and a Father in the home ?

Question

I feel if we are to be strong again the family unit must be stronger and what are your views on this subject?

Answer 1

I feel that a family can run smoother when both the mother and father are in the home. Not saying that a single parent is unable to make their family work (I am a single mother of 2) But I do wish sometimes that it could have worked out with the father, and we could be a family. But things dont work out sometimes, so you have to work with what you have, and make it work.

Answer 2

I don't think that the family unit is just the mother and father.I think it includes grandparents,brothers,sisters,all those with close blood ties.In an ideal world there would be a mother and father in every home but sometimes that is not possible.Sometimes depending on the situation it may be better for one parent to be outside the home and in some circumstances not be involved at all.I do believe in the family unit and I wish all families could live in a perfect world.Then too as long as our children are growing up with good role models ,and people that really love them and will be an inspiration in their lives(if they are family or not)The child will be better off than living with 2 parents that just don't give a darn.

Answer 3

I agree, the break down of the nuclear family has led to the breakdown of family values and society in general. Before I get shot down for generalising I come from a broken home and was brought up well but I do think my life would be very different if my family had stayed together!!

However, on the other side of the argument, there are plenty of little tearaways being brought up by two parents!!

I just think that society has evolved in such a bad way, people are reluctant to help others these days, people are too busy to think of anything but their own lives etc.

I do think if families become stronger, and by family it could mean one parent, two parent or no parent just guardian, then society could become good and strong again!

Answer 4

Ideally, in the perfect world having the mother and father in the home, making it work and creating a healthy environment for children to thrive is best. However, in reality this is not always best. Speaking from experience, sometimes it is in the best interest of the child for a separation. If the home is not a healthy environment because one parent destroys the family dynamics, what's the point? I think what's most important for children to thrive normally is love and genuine concern. Nothing more. If that comes from both parents being together, so be it.

Answer 5

I think that when a child has two, loving parents in their home, they do very well. This isn't always the case in today's world, as you know.

I think that today, with so many divorces, and ex spouses who dont' get along, a lot of emotional harm is caused to children. Divorce is one thing, being bitter and putting the kids in the middle is another.

I feel people who have a loving and caring family unit, with a marriage intact, are fortunate. And I also feel these same people put a lot of effort and work into their relationships and lives.

take care.

Answer 6

Hi family can be made up from not just the norm a mum & dad

your Friends & family they are all the family you need I had hard child hood very hard and wish was just me and my Mum as well as brothers & Sisters.

family can be made up of freinds I had lods of aunts (& uncles) my aunts (mums mates) were fab and was like a huge family there is always some one there and really these days the Normal family life not what it cracked up to be
but good luck sure u will find what u are looking for soon..

Answer 7

I think there is more than one type of family and your reference to 'the' family unit is just plain ignorant. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Answer 8

extremely. children need to learn to stick together through good times AND BAD TIMES. Also, it is important for children to leanr how to be good wives and husbands....i have learned soooo much watching my parents tought it out and manage to b married now for 30+ years.