2007-10-18 01:06:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Enjoy yourself, Relax, Laugh when nothing is all that funny (it helps you be stress free) try to remember everything about him/her. Just enjoy being in love with one anther. You both will look back on this years to come and point out cute/ funny things that happend or even went wrong.. and you know what.. NOTHING is perfect.. thats life.. laugh it off it something goes wrong.. my flower girl kept on talking about how hugry she was.. everbody had the giggles.. it will help you relax more and enjoy it.. it goes by soooo fast!
2007-10-18 09:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by *Saved by God's grace* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love each other spend time together Realize there WILL be hard and tough times. Invest time with one another have faith in God. Never take each other for granted and NEVER stop courting one another go on dates in marriage even after the kids don't make the kids the center of the marriage of the universe Go away after you have kids have date night once a week. Look for the good. There will be times were you will be pissed off and mad at each other there is a fine line between being boyfriend and girlfriend and/or living together than being husband and wife. Always forgive NEVER discuss your sex life with anyone accept your spouse or your OBYGYNor if you need counseling there is a reason certain things happen behind closed doors and some things are sacred and private not for all the word to see and hear and experience. Realize that marriage is a process not an event and that marraige is work nothing in life worth having every comes easy and anything worth having is worth working for.
Hope this helps :)
2007-10-19 09:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice for the Wedding Day:
ENJOY IT! Making it "Perfect" will exhaust you, and when it all is said and done, It's already Perfect in the point that you just married someone you love.
Most likely, things won't go according to plan, but chances are that none of your guests will know it..So don't stress. Get Plenty of sleep the night before and Do not use any Beauty products that you have not used before! The last thing you need is a rash or reaction to something new.
There's a Saying, the Wedding belongs to the Bride, (and Groom) But the reception belongs to The Father of the Bride.
Advice for the Marriage: Don't lose yourself in the marriage, try and remain separate individuals sharing one life. Allow each other the freedom to be who you truly are.
Keep in mind, no matter how stressful things may get in the future, You and your Spouse chose each other.
Don't believe what anyone tells you about what to expect about marriage, or about being a husband or a wife. Be your own true self, and allow your spouse to do the same. Then love each others true self, not your image of each other.
Be open.. to compromise, to suggestions, to experiencing new things. A marriage must evolve to survive.
Never seek marital counsel from someone who you know dislikes your spouse. Any advice they contribute will only be self-serving.
Many financial experts recommend that married couples have three checking accounts: his, hers, and a combined one.
I Hope you Have a Wonderful, and very Happy Wedding & Married-life!
Love each Other!
2007-10-18 02:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mommacat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) As the wife be prepared to sacrifice more as the woman...that's just how it is. 2) Be yourself...always keep your identity. Love him but don't lose yourself in him. 3) I know this may sound brash but be a lady by day but become a freak in the bedroom LOL! Keep things interesting. I know that you're both virgins but keep it spicy. 4) Choose your battles...never argue over every detail. Think about it first and if you feel it in your heart that it's worth confronting then do it. 5) Be each others friend. Laugh together, debate things, and be quiet together. I knew that we were content when we could sit in a room quiet and it felt good. God Bless you and Congrats!
2016-05-23 07:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do absolutely everything you can before Saturday to make sure all the loose ends are tied up. I was super stressed the Thursday before I got married, but on that Saturday everything went perfect. I just had to realize that I did everything that I could and I just had to sit back and enjoy the ride. Best wishes and good luck!
2007-10-18 02:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by vaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advise I could give anyone on their wedding day is to always remember to communicate with each other. Don't keep secrets from each other and talk EVERYTHING over, even the little things, those are really important even if you think they aren't. End each day with a conversation of your day. Tell each other you love them and SHOW them you do, words are not always enough. Respect each other. Trust each other. Take care of each other. Remember a marriage is a 50/50 relationship, don't expect more from your spouse then you yourself are willing to give. Talk, talk, talk, don't let a lack of communication interfere with a happy marriage. Remember why you wanted to marry your spouse. Celebrate your love. Remember important dates. Be happy and have fun together. Just because you are married don't forget to still have a date night. Best of luck to you.
2007-10-18 01:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by candlemom1960 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to bed as early as possible on Friday night. When you wake up on Saturday ( no matter what the weather, etc.) enjoy the day, don't stress about the little things. The day is going to go by very quickly.
2007-10-18 02:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Congrats!
I got married a One year and 1/2 ago. I was a so nervous. I woke up so early on that day just feeling overwhelmed. My dad happened to be awake and we both sat down. He said to me before you stress out and think of a zillion things, he said let just sit here, have a cup of coffee, and go over everything you need to do today, item by item and make a list. Anything small or big was added to the list, and we make a checklist, I carried it around w/ me and checked things off as I did it. I just made it easier for me to feel like I had a hold of everything and everything was going to go smoothly and I wouldn't feel like I forgot anything. Plus being up that early (5am) and having that talk w/ my dad and just relaxing and drinking coffee with him, sort of just started that day off on a really good, calm foot.
Good Luck to you! It'll be a fantastic day, enjoy!
2007-10-18 01:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by jennydill78 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't drink the night before. EITHER of you. Hope you've already had your bachelor/bachelorette parties.
I've photographed literally thousands of weddings, and seen WAY too many ruined by hangovers, puking, and passing out. And don't forget to eat. Lots of people are too nervous to eat and pass out. Don't lock your knees during the ceremony. Shift your weight around ever so slightly. Don't feel like you have to stand perfectly still.
Guys....keep your hands off the bride's butt. I know it's just affectionate, and you probably don't know you're doing it, but it looks tacky. And no obvious french kissing in the ceremony. Also tacky. :)
Good luck!
2007-10-18 01:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a plan of action for that day, because something will go wrong. Have someone else handle it, that is what your maid of honor is for, and of course you will have your mother, and your soon to be mother-in-law to help with this. This is to be the beginning of a new life, so start it by being happy. Go with the flow, don't let little things bother you, Make sure you eat something, even if it is a light meal, especially if it is later in the day. This is your special day. Best wishes.
2007-10-18 01:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋