So I met this wonderful guy and we've been going out for two months and we're perfect for each other. I'm 26, he's 27 and honestly I've never met anyone who I get along with sooo well.. he feels the same way... the only problem is, he used to live with his ex and even though they've broken up they still have the lease which is good through september of next year. as of now we spend 99% of our free time together (with the occasional going out with my friends) but technically he lives with me (stays with me overnight - EVERYDAY)... its only been two months but we love one another and have already talked about getting married when the time's right. My question is, is it too early to move in together? we're both on the same page and are looking for the same things in life, and I have no doubt that we'll make it BUT I dont want to ruin it by moving too fast... what do you guys think?
2007-10-17 23:42:17 · 7 answers · asked by no1gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it chick! You guys are old enough and mature enough to do what you want and if you really love each other than don't waste time! You guys sound great together! Although things do change when you live with someone just don't become his mother ok! Have a really great time shifting!! You will love it! maybe live together for awhile before getting married but don't listen to people on here just go with what you both feel is right for you selfs
2007-10-17 23:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like he's perfect for ya-give it a try, but it's a risk-When my ex girlfriend moved in with me, things changed, (we fought more when living together,)-& I felt like I was married to the wrong woman. anyways before you plan to get married, live together for a while, & if everything goes well-you're both set, & possible marriage.-good luck
2007-10-18 07:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not date a little longer to insure the compatibility and then get married? That's God's plan for you and I and everybody. Keep sex out of it and until after marriage. you'll be much happier in the long run.
2007-10-18 06:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by johndpayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it up he is Good 4 u
2007-10-18 06:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give it more time, seriously. you'll see if what you're feeling is really love or maybe just infatuation
2007-10-18 06:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by lukas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the relationship is so gooood then why dont you simply get married?
2007-10-18 06:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move when ur ready... that it. Don't feel you have to move to please your boyfriend or something. Don't feel pressurise to move and take your time to decide and i hope u'll feel confident with ur decision.
2007-10-18 06:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Katrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋