The Girl is extremely in love with me, she is 3 years elder to me, can i marry her.
will we face problems later in the future if at all i marry her.
I am 21 years old Software Professional from India
2007-10-17 23:38:35 · 37 answers · asked by salman k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think there is no boundation or barrier in love.
If u loves that girl and girl has also a same response towards u, then u can start ur happy life.
its only a game of understanding.
there is no problem in ages,cast ism etc.
if the girl extremely loves u then u should marry
and don't worry about ur future , u can handle all the problems with her.
OK
ALL THE BEST
2007-10-17 23:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by VIJIT ROHILLA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 21 then she is 24-25.
Age doesn’t matter dear.
In a marriage, it is the feelings that is important and not the age.
When you get married, you must be in love with each other.
Although it is practical to always be prepared for the future, smart enough to assess in a way the out come of your union.
Age should never be a problem at all.
I am 12 years older than my husband! After being married 20 years,
We are doing fine and we compliment each other….His youth and my mature ways.
They say that women mature earlier than men. That is why at times women are more patient in a relationship. There is always an exception to every rule though…
As LOVE is universal, it has been proven that it conquers all, regardless of Age, Color, Religion, Nationality, than even a king gives up his thrown for his love of a commoner.
Smile dearest and let LOVE see you through…if you Love a person, nothing else matters…even if she be too old and ugly…the heart has its on mind and it decides on its own.
Love is Beautiful…look !!! it can erase the 3 years difference just in one kiss.
PARIS 716
2007-10-18 00:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age difference does not matter as far as there is mutual understanding and love lasts.
Its how you think. By the way I think being and Indian more than an average people wld support that the a guy shld be superior in all aspect than a girl when it comes to marriage. Initially one may think there is absolutely no problem marrying a woman elder or superior in any aspect because they love each other. Later this reason itself becomes enough for the difference between the couples.
Practicing is difficult than preaching....Male ego is very strong - think before u decide.
Remember - Women before marriage seems to be chandramukhi, during marriage surajmukhi, after marriage jwalamukhi and later "tu dukhi mai duki".
Jokes apart....life is something one shld take seriously yet lead humourously and enjoy every walks of life with right kind of decision.
2007-10-17 23:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Indira Menon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her or did your parents find her. And also what does being a software professional have to do with anything?My hub was 7 yrs younger than me. Now i am separated and dating someone 6 yrs younger. no big deal AS LONG AS WE ARE ALL ADULTS. ex : 14 yr old dating a 20 yr old no good
20 yr old dating a 26 yr old okay a 30 yr old dating a 40 yr old okay 10 yr old dating a 20 yr old PERVERT.
I hope this helps!
2007-10-18 02:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the gap, at 21 do you think you are even ready for marriage i guess you don't even have a 1 year of work experience to have a good saving ... do you have a house .. where will you keep her ... in you parents house .. what a shame ? .. or rent a cheap flat in a cheap locality and live miserly ... marriage is a big responsibility ... one has to look beyond love and sex before committing and tieing knots ...
2007-10-18 00:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love, age does not matter. What problem will you be facing? You are 21 years old. Is there a prohibition in your country regarding your age?
2007-10-18 01:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 01:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by catharine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the question is. do you think your mature enough to marry? MOST young men don't consider marriage until they are closer to 30. So I hope this gives you some food for thought. Good luck.
2007-10-17 23:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by navywife_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not . Age is a number . Not a person . I am 2.5 years older than my husband and we get along fine . Total opposites , we even each other out .
2007-10-18 00:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by vpsinbad50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is such a small age gap (3 years) it won't make much difference, especially if you are really in love. Love has no barriers.
2007-10-17 23:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by ChameleonGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋