this guy from the 'rebel' group at school asked me out. I've liked him for ages, the only problem is my friends: they don't approve. they think he isnt bf material. everyone keeps telling me to say no, but in my heart i know that i want to say yes. i know my friends want whats best for me, i know that he gets into trouble a lot, but i also know he likes me and i like him...heaps. wat 2 do?!!
2007-10-17 23:04:41 · 11 answers · asked by bananasinpyjamasrock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
follow your heart dont worry what your friends say, but be careful to, lay down some ground rules if he truly likes you he'll try to stay out of trouble. some "rebels" arnt really that bad its mostly the people they hang out with. and their scared to be different.
go for it but dont let love blind you, you need to be able to see the truth and if he wont change hes not for you.
2007-10-17 23:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone cares about themselves, that's the only person they know how to care for. Your friends don't want you to see him because they want what's best for you and your image, because keeping you as a friend makes them feel good.
Sure, it sounds selfless, but it isn't.
You weren't put on this earth to please other people. Listen to what they have to say (it's free info) then do what you think is best. There reaction is irrelevant and you can't control it (they could end up hating you tomorrow for something completely different). If they throw you under the bus or make fun of you for seeing him, it will become glaringly obvious what type of friends these girls are.
Will you get burned by him? Who knows, but what your friends say won't have any effect on what happens to the two of you.
2007-10-18 06:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by thewon4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hey hey....think first before you act...Your friends, knows if what is good for you, why you didnt agree w/ them...Think this,,if ever you will go w/ that rebel guy, you thin k your life will be better? You are maybe so young,..well, im not saying i discreminate rebels group, but girl, you are young,,. think your future...love is always there, you can find better than him...also think about the hardship and courage of your parents to send you for school....
2007-10-18 06:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by ausleybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls always seem to think they can change "bad boys". I got news for you. He's only appealing when he might be changed to good. Once he burns you once or if he gets in serious trouble he can't get out of, will you still need him?
I say find a better guy.
2007-10-18 06:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart, not your head or what other people are telling you. If you really like him, say yes. If your friends are true friends they'd support you know matter what. Go with him and see how it goes.
2007-10-18 06:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by XxElexX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct! Be circumspect, take care of your interests, weigh your friends' words of caution and advice, and then, trust your instincts as well! It is a difficult decision, let it be a well considered decision, taking all pros and cons into account, in a good debate within!
2007-10-18 06:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it sensibly and if and when you say yes make sure you are saying yes for yourself and not because you think you can change this person.
be aware that a lot of people ,may be on your case about him not being 'good' for you, but don't alientate your friends for him as you always need your girlfriends.
2007-10-18 06:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by sandiemay01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart but be careful. tread careful. If your gf,s care for you they will stand back but be there for you if you should need them. Good luck.
2007-10-18 06:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by RaChAeL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should follow what you believe. its not your friends relationship, and if they are really your friends they will stick by you through this. everyone has dud relationships, its how we learn.. but who knows, it might work out..
2007-10-18 06:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart!
2007-10-18 06:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Pixie-Flames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋