That is tough. You don't actually realize that in a few years, his balls and such will be hanging so low that he will be holding them up with briefs, or wearing those old men pants that look as if they have a turd in the seat of them. His skin will feel soft and saggy, with breasts that need a bra--or a bro as it were. What happens when it takes all day to get him to get off?
I am telling you this because my mother married a man 20 years older, and she used to tell me how miserable she was when he got older.
2007-10-17 20:30:07
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answered by PEGGY S 7
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Maybe it's alright to date him, but physically, you two are SO different. And just think, if you have kids, by the time your're 40, he'll be 63. The kids will have an old father, and trust me, from experience, kids do not want old fathers. And what about when you both get old? Statistically, he'll probably die before you, and you'll be a widow for a long time because you were so much younger than him. That means, you will go through the death of a partner, at a young age.
2007-10-17 20:37:40
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answered by Anonymous
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No relationship is objectionable if the people in the relationship are comfortable with each other.What is important is how well you understand each other and adjust with each other.It is the understanding of each other's emotions,difficulties and problems that makes a relationship long lasting and fruitful.Here the question of age doesn't matter because age is just a number.Imagine a 20 year old person without any enthusiasm or zest for life and is depressed all the time-for me he/she is 75 years old!!!!!!
Now imagine a person who is 60 years old but lively,enthusiastic,inspiring and dynamic-for me he/she is 20 years old!!!!!!!!
2007-10-17 20:34:51
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answered by sheru_715 2
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When i was 19 i was involved with a 48 y.o man. It was a relationship filled with care and education, as he thought me things i needed to know about life and building a career. It became romantic when i hit 21. He proposed when I was 22 but over many considerations I refused.
Just sharing to let you know it's perfectly okay :)
2007-10-17 20:33:12
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answered by Zenithia Victora 3
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I think that in order for it to develop, then it must be pursued in some way. In my opinion, age is a number that allows society to place a general opinion on what they think is wrong or right. I say, to each his own. If it is something you want, then go after it. I think you would be surprised the number of women willing to date that high above their age.
2007-10-17 20:26:08
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answered by Anonymous
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love knows no boundaries...it goes beyond time and age....yes for me it can happen and i know some with that age bracket and that age gap that are living together. in love, it doesnt matter wheteher your young or old..it's a special feeling that anyone could feel. and i think it's a wonderful feeling.well, with your question whether its romantic or just friendship, i dont exactly know, it is only them who could say. but i hope its romantic, hope it's love. anyways, if it just friendship, i know along the way it would lead to a special romance. and with that i would say it's so lovely.
2007-10-17 20:31:58
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answered by jerimon 1
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I definitely think it could be a romantic interest. Age really shouldnt matter unless you yourself has an issue w/ it, so you have to make sure that him being that much older than you won't bother you later on in life. Otherwise, go for it. I like older guys too!
2007-10-17 20:29:07
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answered by bluestar 3
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only if i really liked him a lot, if i were 27, then yeah probably.
oh yeah and i think the best way if for the relationship to develop gradually, in your case.
2007-10-17 20:23:49
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answered by Anonymous
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I believe that if the feelings were mutual then nothing should stop them from being together
2007-10-17 20:30:52
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answered by S S 4
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