There is this girl i REALLY like. She is probably the most wanted girl in school. anyway, we are friends and she sits right behind me in Spanish class and then it finally hit me that ive known/liked her for 7 freaking years!!!
She is finally single and im now thinking of doing something. My major problem is that im not what people consider "handsome/hot" and i have a weight issue which holds me back. I dont really talk to her out of class so im not that close with her.
Im afraid that if she rejects me ill never talk to her the same again.
One major problem is that i dont know if shes single because last year she was still with a senior and they might be together still
Please give some advise on what i should do and help me out 10 points and all my thanx is up for grabs
2007-10-17 20:16:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your main thing is you need to talk to her with confidence, and think of her more of a person then "the hot chick" and judge her based on her personality. do you know how many guys tell her shes gorgeous, and just want to get with her because of how she looks? if you show a genuine interest in HER personality, then you will be on a whole different level then the rest of the playing field. Be confident, not TOO into her, and then ask her out. I belive in you my friend. Oh and remember, girls judge guys based on personality WAY more then we judge girls. So basicly we are more shallow when it comes to looks, them when it comes to personality.
2007-10-17 20:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, weight issue is not a problem because you can enroll in fitness gym, the thing you need to focus in is that how can you tell her your true feeling and of course make sure that she is available. You have a big chance to be close to her since she sit beside you, it is a matter of right timing to approach and to know more about her.
Always remember: its not a matter of being handsome/hot, slim, young blah...blah... blah... it is a matter of how sincere you, in telling your feelings for her whether you will be accepted or rejected just take this as experience because from that you learned how to deal with girls.
2007-10-17 20:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by AVALINE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woww, it seems you are too sweet guy that i've ever heard in my life coz 'till now you are still hoping that someday she will be yours and you can't stop thinking about her and you've made up your mind to live in memory of that girl you liked for 7 freaking years, imagine? . So, if i were you, get that *** and gear, and ask her for a romantic date just YOU and HER alone.
Take note, there's nothing wrong or loss, if you will try the hot - iron, and don't waste your time for thinking and wandering if she's a single or shouldn't, your doubt will kills you. JUST GO FOR IT and HAVE FUN!
2007-10-17 20:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop putting yourself down! What do you consider a weight issue? Bulkier guys are actually more appealing to most girls! They like to feel safe! Try thinking positive! Think to yourself that you are good enough for this girl and that she will be lucky to have someone like you! You sound like a real decent bloke! Ask her to go to the cinema, or offer to walk her home! Try seeing her outside school! Let her see the real you outside school! Seeing her outside school should give you more confidence around her! After a couple of weeks seeing her regularily ask her to the cinema but make it clear you would like for it to be a date!
Good luck! And remember to start thinking positive about yourself!
2007-10-17 20:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by emzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man first of all have to say been there before my friend but before you can even think about approaching her you have to become better friends with her. You were honest about your looks, and that is really nothing to be worried about because everyone has something going for them. You have got to First try to become better friends with this girl, which i know is hard! But if you really like her you have no shot if you first can become more then just classroom friends. All the best!
2007-10-17 20:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'm not a girl but my advise as a guy..
Just Do it. at least you know the outcome and won't live to regret when u r 80 years old in a rocking chair.
2007-10-17 20:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by f0r0thers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, You could try asking her out as a friend to the movies or something... See how she responds, and if you two go, see if you actually have anything in common with her. You can usually tell if the chemistry is there or not.
2007-10-17 20:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sara ♈ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said she's now finally single but then you said you're not sure whether she's single or not..
Hm
Better go find a girl to help you ask her about her status so you won't trip and fall..
2007-10-17 20:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Zenithia Victora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To uncover a female friend? You have got to be determined. Anyhoo, simply be your self. If she does not like that, then she's no longer correct for you. Be your self guy!!! Girls love men who're consistently their selves. Good Luck!!!!
2016-09-05 13:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a contradictory question.
you cant be friends with her, and hardly talk to her outside of class,
you say shes available, but dont know if shes still dating a guy,
you feel like your not attractive enough to confront her, but if she rejects you, you wont be abld to speak to her again the same.......
you need to make up your mind. i thought this was a forum for people with real problems. its a nice gesture to give away ten points, but you just wasted 5 points on asking this question.
get a life, and use your brain more often than not.........
2007-10-17 20:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋