She gave me her phone number, but I have yet to call. I would like to meet her in person but is it a good idea? If I do decide to ask her to meet, whats a good place to meet that would be safe...
2007-10-17 19:40:57 · 19 answers · asked by Nice Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do what you feel
2007-10-17 19:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are curious why not. Start with talking over the phone a few times so you can see if she sounds ok or not. Then ask to meet in a public place like a resturant. Bring a friend and go in a group if you want to be extra safe.
2007-10-17 19:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting someone is never unsafe unless you have had correspondence of dubious nature, and she has not divulged her true age and the police is following you.
Then whats the hurry? Exchange other identifying info. Meet at the museum, art gallery, or other sites of public interest, that are out in the open. Also why do you want to met her, ask yourself this question. What would you do after you meet with her for three hours?
Have fun.
2007-10-17 19:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Krishna N. H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would chat on the phone for a while first. Then when you feel the time is right, ask her to meet. An art gallery or museum is a nice place for a first date. A zoo would be good too. You can oooh and aahh over the cute animals together.
2007-10-17 19:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its a good idea to meet her in person as it will help you to decide will you continue or not,and physical appearance helps to understand the person better.
For the place to meet, you have to talk to the girl and try to find out what type of places she would love to go but do it tactfully. Choose a place where both of you will feel comfortable.
2007-10-17 19:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by kd black 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable...I think you should call her and talk to her first, just so you get an idea of how she feels. I've met someone online years ago and he and I are very great friends.We had talked on the phone a few times before we met and our conversations made it that much better when we met in person.Find out what you two have in common...see where it goes from there.
2007-10-17 19:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by MexicanTlingitVisayan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh go on and phone her and see if you like her voice. Its nice to chat on the phone will give you a better idea of what she might be like. Then if yous get on OK arrange to meet at a suitable place.
2007-10-17 19:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coffee shop in the middle of the day is perfect. enough people to be safe, not enough to be annoying.
do it man, you know you want to. whats the point if you dont meet her in person? sounds like youre a little skiddish about the whole idea. loosen up, call her, see how it goes, then do the coffee thing.
2007-10-17 19:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ricardus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how long you have been talking to her.....but sure if you have been talking for a while....call her and see what you think after that....if you still feel like you want to meet then go for it......meet in a public place, at a mall or a restaurant......ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-17 19:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Optimistic1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do you live? what is around you like a lake to walk around, a park to sit at. A fancy-ish resturaunt..... and make the first encounter some what short. like plan on a short lunch somewhere. If she is interested to go furth she will let you know! if she or you wants it to end, planning in the first place a short date, makes getting away easy!
2007-10-17 19:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shud meet her in person, its the next step and if you are goin to continue talkin to her thats the best way to go, atleast you wud get to talk to her face to face. Meet her at the movies.
2007-10-17 19:45:14 · answer #11 · answered by Michael F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋