2007-10-17 18:35:35 · 28 answers · asked by Mylene33 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
With God all things are possible.
But you must pray!
2007-10-17 18:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
You cannot share something you do not have in common. You can love each other and have good time but you'll always feel the difference not so much of faith but of practicing it. Different days of festivities, different church to go, different dress code, different times of fasting etc. If it is just a fling it does not matter, but if you think seriously about each other then you'll have to convert to Islam (also a monotheistic religion) . I said you can convert, because us women ,are more capable of changing our lifestyles in order to achieve a nice familly, no other reason. Think about conflicts that can happen when the in-laws are all together, the children's guideness and think about your life together in ten years. If you cannot imagine being together that long, no need to worry, you are not ment to be together. Remember, couples can brake up for more stupid reasons, and this is not stupid, its a whole lifestyle.
2007-10-17 21:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by constantina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can share it, if he wants to listen. But if he doesn't, it would be a wasted effort, as well as maybe causing some kind of tension between the two of you.
Share your faith by your actions and maybe he will want to learn more. If not, the difference in your religions is something that you will have to work out between you.
2007-10-17 19:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by jenx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this man was Muslim he wouldn't have a girlfriend. In Islam dating is forbidden. Yes but don't expect him to change his religion and if you get married the children will be Muslim and you won't be allowed to teach them anything about your religion and they'll take their father's last name and your daughters will cover their bodies and hair when outside.
2007-10-17 20:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you get out of this relationship now. Most likely he will be the one converting you...by the sword (out of fear you'll be converted) & you will likely become a prisoner in your own home if you are married. Sometimes Muslim men take 2nd wives & if you remain Christian you will be shunned by the Muslims in your own household, including your husband.
Ministry to Muslims is possible, but it is always best for women to minister to women & men to minister to men. It is *very unlikely* that you would be able to convert him. Muslim men are taught to be deceivers--he may seem all nice & woman-friendly now, but the Muslim faith/culture is generally anti-woman. Even the nominal Muslim man I know has been known for domestic violence.
My suggestion is to break up now and continue to pray for him, but stay away for good. Here's a website that may be helpful to you (http://www.poblo.org/prayer.htm). You can contact them to ask questions & ask any number of pastors who are either former Muslims or formerly from Muslim countries. They will confirm that what I'm saying is true. Please, please do so.
2007-10-17 19:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sakurachan 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I think it will be harder for to share your faith with while he is your boyfriend ... because you have a vested interest in keeping him happy, and if he doesn't want to hear it, it is easier to back down. I know you probably know this but I have to say it --- don't be unequally yoked!
I know when you're in love you might not want to hear that, but I am speaking from experience. Be careful, please!
2007-10-17 19:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by prairieprincess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not preach to him unless he asked a question about my faith. I would not compromise my faith for him. I would be a light to him by my actions and words. He might eventually get curious and begin to ask you about your faith.
2007-10-18 03:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him about Islam and try learning Islam from him. I hope you convert to Islam and both of you become devout Moslems, Amen!
PS: djmantx, aren't the verses in Deutronomy a solid proof that Jesus should not be worshipped as GOD??! Does the order in these verses decree that Jesus should be disbelieved if he were to claim himself GOD??! You're actually working for the benefit of Judaism without reallizing what you're doing!!!
2007-10-17 20:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ash'ari Maturidi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is it necessary to change convert? Does religion really matter and is up of human kind? Can you change his self identity that this religion had a hand in moulding up his personality? Y cant we be more accpetable?
2007-10-17 18:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by JB 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have seen many Muslims go to a Spirit-filled church and the power of the Holy Spirit hit them so hard that yes they did instantly convert from Muslim to Christian. You really must pray and ask God for his guidance in this matter...and ask God to allow the Holy Spirit to lead you with what to say to your boyfriend. Good Luck
2007-10-17 18:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
Dear sister, witness to him of the love and mercy of Christ and ask the Holy Spirit to help you to speak the truth in love.
please do not marry this man unless he comes to saving faith, this is scriptural teaching, so guard you heart and be wise in your walk, you are a daughter of the Living God, may God use you to bring him to the light and life of Christ our Saviour. i am praying that the Lord fills you with the gifts of wisdom and discernment.
Shalom
2007-10-17 18:53:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋