im not doing anything wrong and so of them just wont let up
2007-10-17 17:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by aen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell them they are being nosy and to Butt out!
2007-10-17 17:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by ozzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't know how to say no to them or how to set good boundaries around yourself and your personal business. Until you get the confidence to stand up to them, my suggestion is that you stop answering the phone and the door. They'll get the hint. Lots of people have trouble breaking free from meddling relatives, but the bottom line is they only get away with it because you let them. Fix yourself, and then you can enjoy better family relationships.
2007-10-17 18:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move away, that is the only way to deal with a suffocating family, I left the city to get away from my huge family, I was constantly getting the drop by the daily phone calls, the ?s was that your car out late last night on and on it went. they don't stop no matter what you say, and they are your fam so you can't be to mean, I know it sounds crazy but if you want some peace and privacy you have move at least 4 hours away, good luck
2007-10-17 17:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still living in your parents' house, get used to it. About all you can do is keep a low profile and don't volunteer information.
If you live on your own, you can use the answering machine to screen calls, and use the peephole in the door to see whether or not you want to answer the door.
After that, it is a matter of establishing boundaries and telling people to sod-off and mind their own business!
2007-10-17 18:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult to stop, why? Because you family think that, that is wrong but for you, you think that this is nothing wrong and somemore they wanted to give comments/opinions about this problem. So hope you can live in harmony by both your family and you must give way to each other.
2007-10-17 21:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Danson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the jerks,and when they do something dumb or what ever,THROW IT in their face full force ,don't let them ever forget it,maybe that'll shut them up!!!
2007-10-17 17:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay far away as possible
2007-10-17 18:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by cutie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋