i dont ever want to go out anymore because im scared i might hurt someone, when people walk past me even tho i dont know them just looking at them is enough to seriously anger me, even random things like lamposts and stuff, i plus im getting into a lot of trouble because i literally cant go out during the day anymore, i feel open and exposed and everyone just seems annoying, when i hear ppl laugh i sometimes think its at me, ive lost interest in friends, girlfriends ... i dont want to do anything anymore... ppl tell me to seek "pro help" but i hate them more than anything. plus i have a bad way of dealing with the stress that have ended up with a few trips to the hospital ... ive stopped all my hobbies, i dont see the point in it anymore and i literally cant tell anyone about it because i just wont, i feel like im cornered, even if i wanted to live what the hell is worth living for. pain is the only thing that you ever get in life, and all pleasure is is pain in disguise
2007-10-17 16:50:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
plus every way of life you can follow is something someone is doing right now over and over and over
2007-10-17 16:52:14 · update #1
It means thats a real bummer
2007-10-17 16:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by 4 strings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend...anger is a symptom of depression. I was very angry last summer I couldn't go out and have a good time without picking a fight and yelling at someone. It's good YOU recognize there is something possibly wrong with you because when other people are telling you and you are like oh yeah sure I am fine...I think you should call your doctor and repeat everything you wrote here. Try starting a log when you get these feelings and what triggered it. Log your sleeping haibts, write your thoughts. Take it to the doctor. Even just one weeks log, or even a few days if you can get in that quick. They will probably recomend counseling which is good for anyone, and doesn't mean you are a nutcase just because you get counseling. Good luck.
2007-10-17 23:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jen22 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try this for one month. It will change your chemistry from acid to alkaline. 100% vegan....start right now by taking a teaspoon to a tablespoon of apple cider vinager. Vitamins or 1 to 4 oz. of wheat grass daily. Call an acupuncturist one that treats with herbs...your liver is in distress.
On the vegan diet....nothing is cooked and it's all raw food and dehyradet under 104 degrees. Fruits, vegetables and grains. In about 3 to 4 days expect a detox and you will get very angry, pain, rashes, headaches, to name the common. Keep on the the vegan diet and in about 1 week to 2 weeks notice the change. Exercise everyday....walking, working around the house....just move. If in a month you are not feeling any better....seek mental treatment...life doesn't mean to be this hard. No Sugar....!
The fact is that most food that is on the market is poison with chemicals....for instant...natural flavor is often msg....mono sodium glutamate and with sensitive people there will be a pain at the nape (back)of your neck and head. Anger is the emotion of the liver....do you also have indigestion, heartburn, headaches, dry eyes or ringing in the ears....if you have any of those symptoms, it's your liver. Feel better soon. Good luck.
2007-10-18 00:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you wanted to do all those things you aren't doing lately, you would. You are doing nothing because you want to do nothing. As soon as you start to want to do things again, you will.
"Getting stuck" in life is common. It happens to a lot of people. Try to think about how to view the world humorously. A little humor goes a long way.
As far as people who you think might be giving you a hard time, they probably aren't. The Italians say "nobody cares." When you walk the streets, nobody cares. No one is laughing at you. They all have their own problems.
Intelligent people have a lot of emotional baggage. Try to leave all of that behind and just enjoy your day the best you can.
If this doesn't work you might need some meds for anxiety or depression. It may also be ADHD. Don't be afraid of psychiatrists, they want to hlep you feel normal again.
2007-10-18 00:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Joe from WI 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have hate or does hate have you?
You already know what it means. It is a sign that you need to talk to a professional counselor (psychiatrist or whatever) to get back on track as a way for you to begin enjoying yourself again. You can do it. Take the first step and set an appointment - you might even start to feel better once you have the appointment. Once there, dump all your baggage on the therapist so you can get the help you need to sort things out.
2007-10-18 12:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Nick R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If what you are doing is not working for you then the only alternative is to try something else. You are already aware that this situation is narrowing your life and starting to see everything with tunnel like vision. Professional diagnosis and follow through is the propably the only way to break the cycle. I understand that this is not what you want hear. Don't worry about what others say or think just love yourself first. Good luck :)
2007-10-18 00:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pure Star 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know what makes me angry? Pointless questions like these! haha jk
You think people laugh at you because of your low self confidence, which fluctuates. Sometimes you think your the bomb, and sometimes you think your nothing. Right?
Sometimes it seems like nobody likes you and everybody's out to get you.
You hate people like sometimes even if that person dies, you wouldn't even care. And you get a lot of gratification just picturing someone suffer, etc. For example if someone does the slightest thing you don't like, you get really angry and picture yourself beating him up, taking a piece of glass and slashing his face over and over again, etc.
Anywayz I'm done with my assumptions...my advise is get used to it. Its not so bad. Just make sure what's in your mind stays in your mind. Eventually those thoughts will become less frequent and go away.
2007-10-18 05:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do yourself a big favour and go and see your Doctor, not good to get paranoid over things, will do you no good at all, lots of nice things in the world but I would get some help now if I were you before it is too late.
2007-10-18 02:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have clinical depression. Please contact your doctor. By writing this you are asking for help so ask the right people who can give you the help you need. All you have to do is to walk into any doctors office tell the receptionist what you told here and they will get you to the doctor right away. It takes more strength to ask for help than it does to do nothing. You have proven that you have the strength to ask now go out and receive the help you deserve. I hope all goes well for you.
2007-10-17 23:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Remember you have the freedom to make a choice. Regardless of what you feel or what anxiety is driving you...you can still choose, and that can never be taken away from you. Choose life.
2007-10-17 23:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Salsa Shark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you, mate.
Have you thought about joining the Armed forces?
Seriously, I reckon they may be able to help.
I have a friend who had a similar disposition as you, he joined the Marines, and he is right as rain now.
Give it a thought.
"There's no charge for the hairut, and the bullets are free"
2007-10-18 00:07:51 · answer #11 · answered by fleshflayer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋