How do I fight this help me plz?

Question

what do you do when your in love with your boyfriend but your moher and your father don't want nottin to do with him and you mother tells you that he is this and that and the way your mom tells you get hurt by the way she talks about you boyfriend and you don't know who to belive what do you think I should do

Answer 1

you need to pinpoint exactly what your concerns are with your parents and then alleviate those concerns that you can.

You also know what your boyfriend is like so without any proof of bad behavior, ask your parents to give him a chance.

Unless your mom has concrete info. that he is no good then you should ask your mom to quit badmouthing him that it is hurting you.

Basically, fix what can be fixed and then make your decision from there. Your parents are important to you I'm sure but if this guy is good to you and doesn't have any skeletons in the closet than I don't understand what their concerns would be.

If things don't get better then you is when to make your decision on what to do. Boyfriends may not be forever but husbands are supposed to be and you would resent your parents for forcing to you end something that could be the best thing in your life.

I hope this helps!! Good Luck!

Answer 2

Let go of your emotional upset and look at the learning experience.
Your parents have many years of experience in sizing people up in a short amount of time.
I suggest you ask them some more questions about their observations and take some mental notes.
Keep your scopes up around the boyfriend.

Answer 3

MY MOM WAS THE SAME WAY WITH ME AND MY BF. OF COURSE I WAS YOUR TYPICAL REBELLIOUS 16 YEAR OLD GIRL AND I IGNORED HER. WELL TO SAY THE LEAST, WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5 YRS NOW AND HAVE 2 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN. HE TAKES CARE OF US AND LETS ME STAY HOME TO RAISE OUR CHILDREN, WHILE HE DOES WHAT A MAN SHOULD DO AND SUPPORTS HIS FAMILY.... JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART BUT LISTEN TO YOUR MIND... A QUOTE I LIVE MY LIFE BY! BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.