I am a senior in high school and there is this really beautiful girl there. I really like her, but I am way to shy to actually talk to her. I dont have her in any of my classes but she is in my lunch period. I know that she is single right now, but I have never talked to her. I think i'll freak her out if I suddenly try to start talking to her. I need help.
2007-10-17 16:10:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like you wouldany other girl! :--#)
2007-10-17 16:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should definitely start talking to her. She more then likely won't think your a freak because I'm sure guys approach her all the time. Just start with a casual conversation to open up a line of communication. Jokes or stories are always good. At some point you have to stop being shy and go after what you want otherwise (speaking from experience) you'll sit back and watch everyone else have what you wanted. There is no benefit to being shy so talk to her and if it doesn't work out then she wasn't meant for you and I'm sure theres someone better.
2007-10-17 23:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by *Radium Eyes* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture her sitting on the head its that simple it will boost your confidence were all human and beauty is only skin deep rember this info its your secreat to sucess with her. When you approach her speak to her like you were old friends you will be surprised at her response if she happens to ask you if your free to go on a date say saturday night tell her you cant your helping your friend with revision and it was planned before she asked, tell her you never break a promise she will respect you lots for that arrange another time for the date a tip DONT appear too anzious to go on the date let her know from the start you will not be told what to do dont beg to her just treat her like another friend untill your an item dont show any nearves
2007-10-17 23:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Peter T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quincy. If you haven't been noticed by her yet, maybe you should be approaching a chick with better energy between you. Walk past her during lunch and spill something on her. See how she comes off to you. This could be the break that you are looking for.
2007-10-17 23:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by I'M NOT DEAD YET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know anyone she sits with at lunch? You could start a conversation with them and maybe that'll go somewhere. Or maybe find out what she does after school and just "happen to be there". And find out what she likes to do. but dont compliment her the first time you talk to her. that might creep her out.
2007-10-17 23:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by starburst9207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A beautiful girl is no different inside than any other person. Don't put restrictions on yourself. Next time you see her say hello and introduce yourself and say that you see her sometimes at the lunch break. Take her answer as your guide. Good luck
2007-10-17 23:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Pure Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try to get involved in some of the clubs she is in, and slowly begin building a friendship. Most people are flattered when approached by others, so I'm sure she isn't going to run in the opposite direction (unless you're Matt Ziemba)
2007-10-17 23:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Pogo ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to do this is to talk to her..
start by smiling and just say "Hi" when you see her...
After a while ask her if you can sit with her at lunch( she's already seated) "can I sit with you, all the other seats, seem to be taken" This works best if there are plenty of empty seats
Don't sit too close, nor too far away...
"Hi. my name is______________"
"What's yours?"
From there,it's whatever you can find to talk about..
"Who do you have for math/science/animal husbandry...."
2007-10-17 23:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk, don't run.
Be friendly and polite.
Don't drool.
Say Hello. Use her name if you know it.
Mention that you think she's beautiful.
Tell her you've wanted to talk with her, but you're shy.
Don't panic.
The fact of you telling her will show her your innate courage and your sensitivity as well.
Beautiful girls need friends too!
2007-10-17 23:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't talk to her unless you look good, like ask some of your guy friends first, then just be like "SUP?!" Or if you live in Oklahoma, Texas, or any of those country states, "Howdy!" (but make sure she's alone) and if she giggles you know she likes you, (unless its a "your pathetic giggle" but you can tell the dif) good luck, and just be yourself.
2007-10-17 23:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i would do is just go up and say hi and find something you are both interested in. talk about that, get to know her. DONT GO OUT YET. Become one of her close friends.
2007-10-17 23:14:26 · answer #11 · answered by UhOhKid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋