Ok theres this girl in my class who sits one seat away from me. She always sits in that seat and in between usually any random girl sits there or no one at all. Ok one day I sat there and when she entered the class, she paused, stared at me and then went to the back of the class...
Ok in that class I talk to a lot of people and be friendly with them. As for her she speaks briefly and doesn't have a specific friend in that class. Sometimes I see her sitting alone under a tree on her laptop. Sometimes she walks in the class with her hood on. Shes kinda weird but I would be her friend. I've never wronged her ever, we don't know each other too except we're classmates.
So what do you think is going on? Thanks for reading.
2007-10-17 16:06:13 · 17 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just ruined her routine. Some people are like that. you say that you talk to those around you,right. Maybe she was afraid that you would talk to her. It seems as if she is not the talking type. No matter what it is her problem and not yours. Chill Bro...It is all good...
2007-10-17 16:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by orcarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of weird people in this world. In fact we all can be weird when before the eyes of other people.
You don’t know what is going on in her head, so even if you are not interested in her for a romantic relation (I don’t know if you are or not), she might and probably will think you are and if she doesn’t want that (whatever the reason) then she could go away like she did that day in your class.
If you are not interested, I would suggest to let it be. But if you like her, then you have no option but to try to talk to her. Maybe try sitting next to her next time after she is sitting already. Obviously, if she stands up and walks away, you better forget about it. And if not, then just let it be, don’t talk that first day, if you get direct eye contact, just smile, and that’s it.
If she sees you are actually not hitting on her, she might change her attitude and start talking to you. Otherwise, next time after that you can sit close or next to her, and maybe start saying “hi”, and see if she wants to talk or anything after class.
Good luck.
2007-10-17 16:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were probably sitting in the seat that she was always used to sitting in.
Some people are creatures of habit and stick to routines such as parking places, who ate the taco in the fridge, who drank the milk from the carton, who put the toilet paper on the roll the wrong way...do you understand me?
It seems that this person is a loner, in need of friends. But if she is unwilling to open to you, don't force the issue. She'll have friends someday, but don't feel so bad that it isn't you.
2007-10-17 16:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she simply doesn't like to socialize? There are alot of people who either can't socialize, or just don't want to for many reasons. But I do commend you for wanting to get to know her, so as a tip, I'd say start small, say hi, make a comment concerning a class assignment, or if you see something of hers that's a similar interest to yours, comment on it.
However if she reacts negatively to this, leave her be. This doesn't necessarily mean she's weird or odd or hates you, there are just those that just don't like to talk if they don't need to, or they simply have a diffrent view on things like that.
In any case I wish you luck, and I do hope you can bring her out of her shell and be a good sincere friend to her =3
2007-10-17 16:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by shizumi_jou_honda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this girl needs a friend.Sitting alone under a tree would be a perfect time for you to approach her and start talking to her.She might be troubled over something and your friendship could be the start of helping her.
2007-10-17 16:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by kinkykimba2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's ensecure or shy? or just maybe she heard something you might of said or a romour??
If you want to be her friend, try talking to her private (like when she's on her laptop), she'll probably like it. the first time you talk to her, dont talk to her in the middle of the class with everyone watching her, she may get nervous and not answer you. if you talk to her in private there is no pressure on her.
dont constantly talk to her (unless she becomes your friend and enjoys your company), see what her reaction the first time is and go from there.
hope it helps!
2007-10-17 16:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you necessarily offended her as much as you might have made her branch out. maybe shes shy and nobody knows it. sometime just sit down with her at lunch sometime and have a friendly conversation. sure this might be a little weird but at least you made the effort and she will probably thank you sometime or another. so i dont think you offended her, she was probably just shocked.
2007-10-17 16:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by crazeness19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably didn't offend her. She may be shy, and if she is, in time she will become more friendly with you if she feels comfortable. Some people are loners and prefer it that way, and if she's that type of person, respect her boundaries and keep your distance. And don't take anything personally.
2007-10-17 16:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way,b ut maybe she thinks you're annoying. And maybe she just doesn't like people in general
2007-10-17 16:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by mer_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well, i dont sound like her. but i can realte if she wouldnt want to talk to u( no offense) there is this guy i know, but i hate him because i can see he acts liek a spazz, loud, obnoxious. even tho he is friends with ppl, i dislike him because he seems as an annoyance
2007-10-17 16:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋