My Girlfriends Step mother is a real *****, and keeps calling her a "whore" and saying that she'll never get anywhere in life and have to live off of welfare and that shes stupid and lies to her all the time, of course none of these statements are true and shes a good girl, example: we've been going out for almost a year and we havent had sex or done any sexual act so shes far from being a whore, and shes got A's and B's in all her classes. so my question is what should i do to try and convince her step mom that shes a good kid without causing a conflict between me and the mom, ive thought about writing an annonymous letter and sneaking it into a place where she would find it saying that she should have a little more respect to her own legal child. any other ideas, i wish i knew her email so i could do it that way but unfortunatly theres no way i could figure it out.
2007-10-17 14:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Vash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have your g/f talk to the guidance counselor so she or he can talk to her dad and step mom.This verbal and emotional abuse on their part.Her dad is responsible for letting it continue.
2007-10-17 15:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Joe. She needs to talk to her guidance counselor and possibly get some official intervention.
I think it would be wonderful if she could bring you over to a Sunday dinner and have you meet her folks, just to show them what an upstanding young gentleman you are. The proof being in the pudding.
Other than that, all she can do is try to keep a low profile... get into a lot of good extracurricular activities, or get a job, or study with friends... just to have legitimate excuses to stay out of the house. The trick is to make sure she keeps her grades up and does any chores that are assigned so she doesn't get into any trouble.
2007-10-17 22:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take my advice and do not get involved. Continue to be supportive to your g/f but do resist the urge to fix her relationship with her mother. Think about it, this woman openly treats her daughter like this, she isn't going to listen to reason. Your g/f should do everything she can to keep the peace and let her parents pay for her education. If they aren't, then as soon as she is out of school and over 18 she should leave and never look back. Some women were not meant to be mothers, and hers obviously is one of those.
2007-10-17 22:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of those things are going to work.
nothing you can do. where is her father in all this??? talk to him.
2007-10-17 22:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋