What is a cool way to act at school. I'm 13 and want ask a girl out , but i hardly talk to her or know her. I pretty cute and am shy. What should i do?
2007-10-17 14:26:45 · 34 answers · asked by badonkadonkhr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls like attention, and they like compliments. Behave sweetly and flirty with her. Compliment her on things that are unique about her, such as an unusual article of clothing, a cool hairstyle, a cool backpack, a cool drawing she did, a good answer she gave in class, her being funny, her being smart, etc. DON'T compliment her body parts, except maybe her eyes, hair and smile. Anything else and she'll think you're a pervert and that turns girls off. When you talk to her, show enthusiastic interest in the things that are important to her. Don't try to hit up for an official relationship right away. There should be a school dance coming up. Ask her to the dance. And ask early so no one beats you to it. Or if it's not a couples dance, dance with her for some fast and some slow songs. But don't hesitate to ask or else you'll get too nervous and choke. Just decide to do it then do it. Hesitation will always make you a loser when it comes to getting the girl you want. Be determined, confident and desirable and you can get her!
2007-10-17 14:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay this is so typical of middle school you like someone want to ask them out and can't.While others think you are too young to date I think it gives you more experience to make better choices.Well first just smile to he sometimes not like all the time where she can totally pick it up.Then sometime just "accidently"forget the assignment from the class you had. Have a few friends act like they didn't get it or that they don't know before you ask her for the assignment.Then the next day tell her she totally saved your life with giving you the assingment.Then get to talking about things like wasn't that teacher mean or something.And after that make sure you're in the middle of a sentence right as the bell rings and if it's lunch after the next session then say"hey you wanna finish this at lunch?"and then go from there.But just be yourself and talk honestly with her.
2007-10-17 14:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Syth W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wud put sum cheesy advice such as "oh just be yourself,ya clown" or "well u shud just ask her out yurself and im sure she'll fall in love with ya" although that is good advice, dont u get annoyed when people keep puttin' that junk on yur answers column? that's why im not gonna put that stuff on .im gonna say these words .so listen carefully to this info on girls,yur gonna need it :
1. girls like charming,cute hansome boys that love to have a good time.girls like a boy that can make her laugh .girls like a boy that they can be themselves around ,someone who they can trust with their secrets,someone who will be 100% honest with her .
2. A lot of girls (includin' me) are scared to ask a boy out ,they want the boy to ask them out instead of the other way around so usually up 2 u 2 make the first move
3. a lot of girls love it when boys get them treats on the first date .so make shur ur pockets and wallets are stuffed with $$$ to get that one special girl some roses
4.what is really romantic is the (if yur date is at the fair) Ferris wheel .now only do this if both of u are ready to do this.... wait 'till u get 2 the top of the ride . then,you kiss. that is reely romantic
5. if u or her arent ready 4 step 4 yet ,then mabe a trip to the beach or to the mall and buy her a sno-cone. that is a good idea 4 a 1st date.
6. now ill put the cheesy advice: BE YURSELF,KID!
well that is all of my dating advice so goodby 4 now .GOOD LUCK WITH MISS RIGHT!!! SEE U L8ER ! ; ]
*Skater Girl*
2007-10-17 14:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Skater Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok when i saw this questin i was about to cuse you out cuz frankly i hate guys like you but i came back a littel nicer im 13 to and im not skinny but im smart im funny alot deeper and non jugmental than half thos stupid skinny prep girls at my school so you probley like her. look if shes a mean perp and your not a prep or a jock no way on gods green earth will it happen if thers a nice prep and your not you better start talking to her and soon get in her littel group if shes nice person not a prep then tou should try to talk to her ill tell you something girl are scared of rejection the need to know some one likes them or ther sad so you probley have a good chance if you just went up and talk tho her then ask her out (it middle school not college )
2007-10-17 14:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by antiprepgirl0794 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't walk up to her and say, wanna be my GF??!!? Ask her if she wants to go to some event, like a movie or a concert. First become someone she knows (not quite a friend), an acquaintence if you will, then ask her to a movie or dinner or art gallery. You know what, this would be awesome, get some friends to all agree to go to Chabot Space and Science Center in Oakland (obviously get you mom to agree to take you and your buddies, tell her its $13.00 a pop) and see Sonar Vision. Invite her to go along, not beg, ask, casually. Its a really cool show and you'll be really cool for knowing about it.
2007-10-17 14:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Derek T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 13, also. A good way is to talk to her, find out some stuff. Then get one of you friends to come up when you are talking to her, and drop some hints, or something. Then drop a note in her locker, or give it to her. Hope I could help!
2007-10-17 14:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Erica Epidemic™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get to know her before you do anything serious.
Just talk to her.
As a girl, if a cute guy walked up to me & just started talking to me i'd be happy. & it would tell her that you have guts.
Just try to be friends with her first.
& eventually she would probably start to like you. Then you go in and ask her out.
2007-10-17 14:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww thats so cute.
First off I would get to know her a bit more.
Try talking to her and be her friend.
Ask her to a movie or to hang out one time.
Girls change once you see other sides of them
so you might not end up liking her as much once you get to know her.
Talk to her friends get to know them to
because once you drop the hint to them then your on a roll.
Also flirt with her when you talk to her not to much at first just a little bit then lay the mack down.
2007-10-17 14:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Leahhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you dont need to act "cool" to get her to like you .
You need to be yourself.
Get to know her just a little bit more before you ask her out.
2007-10-17 14:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Babyloveex3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start hanging out with her more, when you get the chance to. Also talk in a group with her more often. Then after a while you can ask her out.
2007-10-17 14:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by KashIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋