"Evertime I see my ex he is always tring to make me jelous By huging other girls or talking to my enimies. What should I do? I've tried to ignore him but I can't? HELP ME!!!
2007-10-17 14:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's working! He is brilliant!
2007-10-17 14:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right that he is just trying to make you jealous. If you let him know that this really hurts and bothers you he will probably act even worse.
Yes, you really can ignore him. Focus on the other people around you when you see him coming. Be involved in talking with the friends' around you and don't even acknowledge that you are aware of his presence.
Or you could just smile at him sweetly and walk on with your shoulders back and your head held high!
He will either stop because it isn't working or he will come and talk to you and try to make amends.
Either way, don't give him the power to make you a puppet on a string, reacting to his show-off behavior.
2007-10-17 14:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by P.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine does this too.(Sigh)amateur.You must ignore him and in order to do that you must get over him(unless you already are).Dont think things like'oh gee Jon would be so impressed if I did this..."or 'if I wear those sexy heels and show allot of cleavage he'll want me back,' you can ignore it you can control yourself think about it you make decisions and choices all the time throughout your day.YOU do,you do.So you can choose to not let this bother you, if you can't change the situation, change the way you react to it .Take away his power.
2007-10-17 14:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jessicca Francis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at this logically--he's your EX, not your current one. His life is his own, not yours, you're no longer a couple.
He can be immature and pull the 3 year old crap, but you don't need to buy into such infantile behavior. Stop being a kid and be the adult and get along with your own life. He's not part of yours anymore, and you're not part of his.
You'll be the perceived victim in this till you stop letting yourself be. It's not even an issue.
2007-10-17 14:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Big deal, he hangs out with a bunch of sleeze bags. He's always done that. What you need to do is french kiss the first guy you see whenever you see your ex doing that stuff. Just to show you can have any guy you want!
2007-10-17 14:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If their injury up became into presently or no longer that in the time of the past, then he's basically use to her techniques and so once you're saying or do some thing it reminds him of her, via fact he's new to no longer being together with her and being with somebody else. So he's not thoroughly over her yet. in common terms via fact they have been at the same time for an prolonged time, properly kinda long term, yet they have been intense approximately one yet another and had stronge thoughts for eachother. That he probable in no way felt that way with in the previous. yet while she's definately moved on and that they no longer talk. ultimately he will relize it relatively is over. that's what in many situations occurs in case you have been at the same time an prolonged time or had thoughts for somebody you in no way had in the previous. even though it relatively is impolite and disrespectful in the direction of you too. so next time in a advantageous way say " i'm no longer attempting to be mean or impolite, yet i don't experience soft with you comparing me or continuously speaking approximately your ex. I basically wanted to be honest with you via fact i for my section such as you alot and that i consistently desire to be honest with you. So in case you need to thrill attempt harder and end doing that i might surely appreciate it., i discover it impolite and disrespectful. i do no longer think of you will possibly desire me to learn you to my ex and communicate approximately him each and all of the time. So ought to we please communicate approximately some thing else. (some thing like that , then communicate approximately some thing else.) you could exchange it up slightly in case you desire. yet undergo in suggestions watch your tone, be extremely advantageous approximately, refer to him such as you normaly might, so he won't take it the wronge way and get mad. basically undergo in suggestions " Be polite" approximately it. properly good success! i for my section wish issues artwork out for you the two. "basically Be honest" shop me as much as date i will upload you to my contacts! :) grumpy81
2016-10-07 03:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a country? The whole frame of mind that you have enemies is concerning. Ignore him. If you can't, then don't go where he is.
2007-10-17 14:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by C C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep practicing - you can do it and if you can't, you need to ask yourself why not? Keep in mind why you two broke up in the first place - that should help.
2007-10-17 14:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you never said who broke up with who, if his trying to make you jealous then i take it you broke up with him. And if that's the case why would you care, what's his doing. You broke up with him right, unless he broke it off with you. Then it wouldn't make sense that his trying to make you jealous.
Just try your best to blow him off, and try to avoid him. Or better still get one up on him, make him jealous.
2007-10-17 14:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by Porcelain Doll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously trying to get your attention just ignore him
2007-10-17 14:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else who is more interesting and move on. He's not worth your time.
2007-10-17 14:30:43 · answer #11 · answered by the_dragyness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋