please help me i dont understand i really like him but i think he likes me but i am not for sure plzzzzz help if u no
2007-10-17 13:48:47 · 24 answers · asked by annon95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has gotten into a comfortable routine thinking you are already going out so he doesn't have to apply too much effort like he did in the beginning of the relationship.
2007-10-17 14:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kind of hard to offer advice without know the entire situation, but I will try anyway.
One of the first things that come to mind when a guy begins to turn away from a girl is "routine". Have you fallen into a routine where he knows what to expect from you at all times? Relationships that start to lack spontaneity will soon start to lack romance. There is a balance between being spontaneous and being suspicious. You should try a new approach to your relationship. Find a way to spark his interest again. Do not, I repeat, do not pressure him. Allow him his space, but, at the same time, don't make him question your interest in him.
Worst case scenario:
There is someone who has sparked his interest more. If this is the case, then it is better to find out after two and a half months than after two and a half years.
All in all, try not to let it depress you too much. Even if this isn't the right guy for you, there is someone out there that is. You will eventually find them. Keep your chin up.
2007-10-17 20:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate those types. He gives me a bad name. When guys do that, that usually means that he has someone else that he doesn't want to say to you. You should confront him and tell him, look I am a type of girl that wants you to talk to me and tell me stuff....sooo I think we should see other people and break this off before I get even more hurt then I am now. Good Bye. This will hurt but it will make you feel less pain if he broke up with you and told you that he found someone better. Hope all is well, good luck.
2007-10-17 20:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by runner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he and you are done. If you two were going out and now he's not talking to you, there doesn't seem to be much question of that. You can, at the very least, do better. (Look for a guy that will be upfront with his feelings. If he is upset about something, or in need of something, he should tell you. This silent treatment isn't fair--or mature.)
2007-10-17 20:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Gauffsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two haven't been going out for a really long time. I think that he just wanted to experiment and try something out. He might be seeing another girl, wanting someone else, or is really preoccupied with something (i.e. troubling issues on his mind.) Try to talk to him and see what is happening. If he doesn't want to talk, Just DUMP him! It's not worth waiting for him. Plus, If it's meant to be, you two will get back together, and be able to work these things out.
2007-10-17 20:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be alot of different things. it could be that he feels he is falling for you to fast. or that he feels he's getting to close to you to quick. or unfortunatly that he doesn't feel the need to be so close so fast or that he might be bored. or having more things on his mind. it could be many things. i know from experince that if you push him to talk that can annoy a man. and usually if a man tells you that he isn't thinking about anything or has nothing to talk about he usually means just that. it's not like women where when asked what's wrong you say nothing and it means just exactally the oposite. hope that helps. take care.
2007-10-17 20:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're hanging out excessively, he may just be expressing that he wants time to himself to do his own thing - hang out with the guys and stuff. Give him his space for a while, if he really likes you, he'll come around.
2007-10-17 20:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by your_star_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why or call him there is this girl that really likes this boy but he likes someone else and she called him and he did not want to hang up on her so he kept talking but the next day i asked him and he said she would not shut up
* hope it helps*
2007-10-17 20:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Haleigh O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's bored and wants something new. If he really liked you he wouldn't ignore you. Dump him before he has the pleasure of doing it to you.
2007-10-17 20:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabye u guys were spending to much time together. So he wnt s to be alone for a while. If it isnt that he might be cheating on you.
2007-10-17 20:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by tigercool37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋