umm opinions????

Question

ok..welll my friend is dating this guy
and he likes me too...and i like him
and those 2 arent really working out
and if they break up and i date him will i be a total whore? or what???? what doo u think?

Answer 1

All is fair in love, just be careful with all the timing or you might lose a friend forever.

Answer 2

Well it depends , you could think of this stupid thing we call loyalty, ( which is important in a lot of cases)but in this case I don't think it qualafies. I say you ask your friend how she feels about her boyfriend( do you see yourself with him for years to come; deep feeling, et cetera) And if she doesn't really grind with him then I say go for it, at least you got a shot, and he likes you, I'm sure she would probably understand. You're not a whore for wanting a shot at love.

Good luck in the end you got to decide which you would cherish more, your friendship; or potential lover. It's all in your hands.

The best of luck I hope your friend is understanding

Oh yea if she been dating this guy for more then a year, then it's harder to decide at that point.

Answer 3

Well you wont be a whore, but it will hurt your friendship. Just don't do it. I did it and lost a life long friend over a guy I dated for less than a month.

Several years later we became friends again. We were then in one anothers wedding, but we lost years of a friendship.

Answer 4

I think the pink one and the orangish one are both nice. If it is that hard to decide then flip a coin. I tend to like bright clours that are easy to see for stuff I need to keep track of. The only other consideration is how hard they are to keep clean looking, the Pink one might show dirt more so you might want to be sure it is washable. I am an old guy so I likely would not choose pink, and go for a bright red or blue. My major concern when choosing backpacks is getting colours bright enough for me to find them again if I take them off when out in the woods.

Answer 5

Dont do it. I did it at 16. I lost a friend and eventually broke up with him because she was worth more to me than he and I can never take that back. Instead tell her he likes you, a true friend would now if you dont care about your friendship with her go for it but you wont be trusted by any other girl around you

Answer 6

It would not be a good idea to date him. If you honor your friendship with this "friend" you would not...especially right after they split. If it is meant to be for you and this guy...only time can tell...You would need to wait and ask if it would bother your "friend". But again you def should wait a while. It really all depends on how serious their relationship was.

Answer 7

please dont date him RIGHT after they break up! this will make your friend lose your trust and possibly become very cold with you.. and who knows, the guy might stop liking you and where does that leave you and the couple? NOWHERE

wait for a few months, see how everythings going between those two and trust your instinct

**good luck!!**

Answer 8

first it depends on what kind of friend you are and what kind of friend she is if you aren't that close then who cares if they say your a whore they just want to say that to cause talk because in reallity their lives are so pathetic they have nothing better to do. but if you are like best friends then i suggest you talk to her tell her how you feel about him be honest its better if you tell her to her face instead of she seeing you guys as a couple without you telling her or worse someone else telling her because they'll ussually exaggerate things like they'll probably tell her he cheated on her with you or something worse. so be honest it she is a true friend

Answer 9

It is always hard to date friends Xs. All I know is that you will have a battle.

If you love him for ever enough to fight this battle, then, it may work out.

Your own heart needs to decide not our minds.

One more thing:

He needs to love you back too.

Answer 10

From experience in this field....if you go out with this guy you could offend your friend and probably lose her as a friend. You need to ask is that worth it? There are lots of men out there that would probably go out with you besides him. He made his choice. If you really want to go out with him you could casually ask your friend if you went out with him would she hate you. I mean casually....try to word it in phrases so that you can get a feel if she would mind. You probably don't want to wreck the friendship.