Does she like me (girls Help please )?

Question

I'm 16 and I like this girl I known her and her family from church for about 6 years now I'm really close with her brothers and sisters but not really with her anyway She told her friends and older sister a year or 2 that she wanted to marry me but I didn't like her than but now I do and like every time one of her friends ask me does she like me she says she doesn't but like when me and my mom go over to her house she says that we flirt with each and that we act like we go together for example If me and her brother are sitting outside she would come out there with us also If I use the computer she sits right next to me and we start talking and it seems like everytime me her and her brothers are around all she talks about are random boys and conplain about how we don't have enough boys in the church her older sister says she's doing that to make me jelious and also her brother told me that she only likes me as a friend and there close but her sister says she think that she does so Help

She's older than me by a year she's 17 I'm 16

and she's very outgoing she's the type of person that will say anything to a person

her sister told me that she thinks she likes me but she doesn't know for sure because there not that close and like everytime she askes her she says she doesn't

Her brother is definintly not over protective(trust me) anyway like last week I made up this assignment on how to get a girl and I asked her to read it and then she took the computer than put her imput on how a boy should approach a girl

Answer 1

Well, I'm a 16 year old girl & this sounds like maybe she does like you, but everytime that one of her friends asks her she says she doesn't because before when she did like you, you didn't like her & she doesn't want to get hurt again. You need to talk to her yourself & if it ends up that she doesn't like you more than a friend than you need to accept that because when she did like you more than a friend you didn't think anything of her. Hmm, if your mom says you two flirt & go with eachother than you do, moms are usually right when it comes to knowing who's flirting & such. Good luck to ya! :]

Answer 2

Hey man im not a girl, but I think I can help you out with this one. I've been through this and it can be very confusing, but from what you said it sounds like shes trying to get close to you. Talking about other guys is something girls do to see if you like them or not, if you ask them if its true they will deny it. Anyways if your mom thinks that then thats also another good sign since shes been there and done the flirting thing before. If I was in your shoes I would just step up the flirting a bit, talk about other girls with her....or a great way to start something is to ask her how do you get a girl to like you. If she smiles and answers quickly that is a good sign. If she looks at you kind of wondering for a second thats not a terrible sign....but she probally doesnt like you then. Then you can easily lie if you have to. It sounds like she really likes you. Good luck to you!

Answer 3

Hmmm. This is hard. She could be doing either of two things:

She may do what I tend to do around guys I like - I try to act as though I don't. I don't like to show all my cards, I hate to let people see me when I'm vulnerable. So I try and act normal around guys I like, polite, I laugh when something funny happens but not at every lame joke, and when people ask who I like I usually avoid saying I like someone. I also end up trying so hard not to be a flirt that I'll start talking about how there's no good guys to date, because when I'm around a guy I like it reminds me that I'm single and that I don't have a bf, and so I start thinking about all the guys at my school, and how they aren't dateable. She may really really like you.

On the other hand, she could just be so comfortable around you that she feels free to talk about anything. You're family friends, known each other for 6 years, and your families are really close. She may view you as more like a brother, and feels completely at ease around you. I don't know her so I really couldn't say.

To me it sounds like she likes you. Wait for the next dance or something not terribly 'date-y' and ask her to go with you.If ya'll go out on a date be a gentleman and fun to be with, and if she didn't like you before chances are she will after :) Hope this helps!

Answer 4

I think she likes so alot. Maybe date her, (you ask) or one of my friends is what she calls 'get to know me dating', where they have dates with the family (dinners and movie nights). They talk on the phone all the time to get to know each other to see if they would want to move any farther. But it sounds like you already know her quiet well. You should step up and ask her. She will be happy i can tell. And i am sure if she says no you will still be friends and maybe she will relize that she wants you too! There is A LOT of hope you here!! Just step it up and ask!!

Answer 5

I think she likes you. She is obviously making efforts to be near you and be around you. Seriously, I'm 21 and all my life, whenever I like a guy, the first thing I've always done is make efforts to be around him.
You should trust what her sister says over what her brother says. First of all, her brother is probably protective and dosn't want her to date. But more importantly, the issue of who a girl likes is girl talk. So she is going to talk to her sister about it, not her brother. If her sister thinks she likes you, its probably because she was talked to her about it.
Does she talk about how there aren't enough guys in the church alot? If she brings it up more then once or twice, it's probably because she is inviting you to rise to the occasion.
As for why she says she dosn't like you, think about this; she wanted to marry you and you blew her off. That hurt her and now she is embarrassed.She dosn't want you to blow her off again. I'm guessing she really wants you to like her but is scared you don't.
But the thing is you do. And the evidence suggests that she likes you back. Just take a deep breath and ask her if she wants to hang out.
good luck freind.

Answer 6

Girls respect daring and initiative. Show her your desire. What if she's asking the same things in her mind about you? And you're being too subtle or careful for her to see any hint that you think more of her than "just friends"?

Or you could try it somewhat more subtly. Give her compliments and judge her reaction. Or in a gentle way... "You are an incredible person, I would like to get to know you better." That's kinda ambiguous, could give you a gentle out for a rejection. But then, she might be distracted and miss it.

Personally... I recommend just ask her out. Sounds like she likes you, but even if you get rejected, it's ok. And it's good to learn how to handle rejection.

Answer 7

That depends. If she's an outgoing person, she will try to make you jealous and flirt with you and stuff, but if she's a shy person or something, she won't look you in the eye or something. and avoid eye contact. You can solve it from here. By the way, I'm a girl and I see this from my friends all the time. Good Luck.

Answer 8

You should listen to her sister. I think she likes you.

As a girl, I can say that flirting technique is a perfected skill to make boys constantly think of a girl. It works wonders.

But I fully think you should make a move!!! Ask her to the movies or something, just the TWO of you.

Answer 9

You're 16, so you are at the age that you can ask someone if they care for you or not. Just ask her and stop beating around the bush. Grow up.

Answer 10

She does still like you, but you need to gradually develop your relationship... ask her if she wants to go with you to get some tea or coffee... then just hang out alone together a little and talk...

smile and have fun...
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