i like this girl and i want to find out how she feels about me. i don't want to directly ask her by going up and saying "do you like me?" i want something discreet that i will get a major hint with. I really like her, and I want to know if she likes me. we are good friends now so I don't want to loose that if she doesn't like me. how can i ask her without telling her that i like her. remember discreet.
2007-10-17 13:21:55 · 24 answers · asked by dustin_del1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flirt, find out how she responds. I took in class in flirting and it really helped.
2007-10-17 13:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out all casual-like; friends go to movies ;P if there's a new restaurant in your area you could use that as an excuse and when you get there give her a flower and be really sweet to her, maybe she'll take the hint.
if she's anything like that one girl on here she'll be replaying the scene in her head for days lookin for things you might've said or done to give away your feelings.
also, if she doesn't share your feelings, a casual thing may not be as detrimental. good luck. ^.^
2007-10-17 20:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her if she wants to hang sometime at the movies and then like the whole day flirt with her smile at her all the time if someone makes fun of her stick up for her and tell her "ya know your my best friend"and be extra nice to her she'll get BIG hint and get quick i swear this will work I Swear it
2007-10-17 20:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girls so i know what works. ask her to go to a moovie or something w/ u and a group of friends. make it sound like a group of friends hanging out ( not a date ) but once you get there, buy her pop corn, sit next to her, give her compliments, and if everything works- hold her hand. she will toatally get the picture and it will make you look like a gentleman instead of just looking desprate.
2007-10-17 20:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres really no discreet about it. the easiest way would be to write her a note. in it just ask her if she is into you more than a friend.
2007-10-17 20:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Puckmymick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her a general question like; are you into any guys in particular right now. That would be the easiest way.
2007-10-17 20:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ralphie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a trusted friend ask this person how they feel about you. Tell the friend not to specify that you told them to ask.
2007-10-17 20:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to one of her friends. First make her promise she wont tell anyone about it, then ask her who her friend likes, and then if she doesn't know or wont tell u have her ask her friend if she likes (whatever ur name is). It works. good luck.
2007-10-17 20:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥katie♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you've had one woman the rest are all the same... just act casual and cool like you don't care about her... she will be drawn to you... meet other girls and make sure she sees...to make her jealous
2007-10-17 20:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Beast from the East 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm you could try to get a friend to ask her for you or you could just start a convo about who other people like then be like so who do you like?? and guess some random people then ask if she likes you.
2007-10-17 20:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jen D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋