I definitely hate myself! I'm the reason why me and my boyfriend broke up. This is all my fault! I wish that I can say sorry to him, but I'm afraid that he will hate me now. He haven't talk to me since the break-up. I still like him, but I don't know if he feels the same way as me. I bet that he found someone else who is much more better than me! I don't know what to do! What should I do? Please Help me! i don't know if we will back together again! What should I do?
2007-10-17 13:19:42 · 36 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It hurts to love
and not be loved in return
but what is the most painful
is to love and never
find the courage
to let the person know
how you feel.
God wants
us to meet a few wrong people
before meeting the right one
so that when we finally
meet the right person,
we should know
how to be grateful
for that gift.
Love is
when you take away
the feeling, the passion, the romance
and you find out
you still care for that person.
A sad thing about life
is that when you meet someone
who means a lot to you
only to find out
in the end
that it was
never meant to be
and you just have to
let go.
Always listen
to your words
if you feel
that it would hurt you,
it probably hurts
them too.
But Never Ever hate yourself,
for saying what you feel, if it is true,
Love means never having to say your sorry.
If it was meant to be, it will come back to you.
I wish you the best of luck.
You sound very young, sample all the flavors!
Experience,and Enjoy life, so many of our young people today
like my girls focus on one person, and waste years, and they really don't know if there going to end up with this person, forever.
I would hate them to lose years of there life, but then..a minute of happiness, is worth a lifetime of nothing special, this is what I say to my two girls..and this is what I would say to you too. Bless you sweetie..and good luck. Dry your tears. You are loved!
2007-10-17 13:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by RainyDay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't hate urself! Go and do other things, take ur mind off of him. IF need be, have a GOOD cry and be done with it. It's hard, but u have to do things that would make u put him aside. IT's better for u both. See, he's trying to move on, that's y he might be dating, and he's not e-mailing u. U shouldn't track him down. If u do, u'll seem needy, then he'll get back together w/u out of pity. That sends him a message saying that it doesn't matter what I do, she'll always be mine..and consequently, he might treat u like crap.
U did take our advice and make the decision to end the relationship. So stick with it. Judging by one of ur other q's, u attract some awesome guys...so I wouldn't worry. Just take a break from boys for a while. Then one day, when ur all healed, another nice guy will come and ask u out. OR hey, u guys might even get back together, but it won't be because u guys were hurting and just want the pain to subside. I think a guy would prefer a girl who's strong enough to walk away from a bad situation anyway...not a needy chick.
It might've been ur fault, but well...u made ur bed, now lie in it. I know u've got a lot of advice on ur other q's on what to do...take a look at those answers and do some of those things. U'll be better for it.
2007-10-18 07:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Dear Girl,
You need to act age appropiate, which means boys should not be such a large part of your life, and have a life where there is a balance. I also reccomended yoou see School or other Counselor to deal with why you see this as so important at this stage in your life. If your honest, look back on past questions and ask yourself if they sound like someone mature enough to be getting into situations like the questions describe. Best of Luck!
2007-10-18 10:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, just calme down.
when did u break up, if it's brand new , don't talk to him espacially if u're the one who wanted the brake up.
give him space. how do u know if he has someone else?? are u sure??? how long have u been seperated??? if it's a while , then forget him. never come back to him because this time he will be the one toi leave u and it will be really really bad.
my advise, even if u love it a lot, just stay away from him.
do ur life again.
wish u luck
2007-10-17 13:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jad K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to learn from your mistake and accept that there are some things you need to change.
People make mistakes, regardless of whether they intend to or not, no matter if they did it for the right reasons, or my accident. And there are sometimes when that mistake, misjudgement, or accident isn't something we are ready, willing, or able to forgive.
Learn what it is you did wrong, attempt to apologize for your mistakes, work to straighten out anything you messed up, and accept that while it's the right thing, and it will lessen the pain, it may still not make it something they can accept.
This is the fun lesson of "consequences of our actions". Sometimes it takes loosing something very important to us to make those more than words, and to remind us that we have a lot that we can lose.
2007-10-17 13:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by cyber_phobic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know if there is a chance to get back with him unless you tell him you made a mistake and that you are sorry.
There is always a chance he has moved on, but you have to ask yourself if you'd rather find out and maybe be told no, or wonder the rest of your life if he still had feelings.
2007-10-17 13:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by Curious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What could you have done to m ake you feel so bad? If you truly did something that made him break up with you - take a good hard look at whatever it was and decide if it was really wrong - in which case you try to apologize to him. If it wasn't really wrong, but he just didn't like it - get another guy. You gotta be yourself.
2007-10-17 13:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by lollybug102 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What could you have done that creates such a question? Let him cool off for a day, then apologize, and ask for forgiveness. If he found someone else that fast, he probably had her ``on the side anyway``.Good luck, and next time be more careful.
2007-10-17 13:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by jms043 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down and take a deep breath. It takes two to build a good relationship, and honestly, I believe it takes two to ruin it. You should just try to explain to him why you did what you did, and never EVER come across too needy, clingy, or jealous. That makes you look like the pshycotic ex-girlfriend and that's never a good title to have. If he won't listen to you, leave him a note somewhere. He may act like he's not curious, but you're garunteed that he'll read that note.
2007-10-17 13:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be helpful to know what exactly happened to result in breakup. But it sounds like he's really angry. Dudes have a hard time forgiving and forgetting. You need to just let his emotions cool down and then apologize and tell him how you feel. If you be honest, things will work out.
2007-10-17 13:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by j_teether 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋