I think I reacted too quickly.?

Question

I went on a date that I thought went well, she even expressed interest in going out again. I called her a couple of days later without realizing that she looked me up on facebook the same night after our date. I didnt respond to facebook until 5 days later or so because I never check. She eventually wrote back to me asking to "be friends" but still wanting to hang out. I thought that was fine even though I am attracted to her. I wrote to her a couple of times and she gave vague responses. Anyhow, I sent her a message and after 5 days I got no response. I was curious to see if she checked her facebook and I saw that she had been on and I even saw that some guy was planning to meet up with her at her house (sounded like her b-day party). I felt ignored so I impulsively removed her as a friend. Now I feel that I pulled the trigger to fast b/c I didnt give enough time. What should I do/say if she eventually writes? Dating is so confusing.

Answer 1

Yes mostly because dating is a horrible way to make a deep and meaningful relationship. Ask anyone else who is dating. THat aside its hard to understand the actions of a stranger, hand she been a friend, you would of already know what to do, but I digress, I'm going to fast. Let the birdie go, if it comes back, simply be honest and get another date out of her, if she doesn't, don't worry about it. Not just because of the whole, it wasn't met to be, but because she isn't motivated enough for it to be worth trying. The problem stems from the fact that human relationships can be as infinit as the two different individuals in it. But we want them in two categories that actually contridict each other, making it extremely hard on us all...... who thought up this idea that a friend I've known all my life isn't as important to me, as a woman I just screwed after a few dates? Happens all the time thou, hopes a dangerous thing.....

Answer 2

bro, most of the girl are rude and stupid... they are rud cause they are crazy , they are crazy because most of the times they dreaming about their dream boy but they wont go and meet him cause they like to tease them, I'm sure that she talked a lot about you with her friends.........
their sucks but I still like them, you know why cause I can't live without them....