He's 16 and she's 19. She's already in her 2nd year of college and he's in the 10th grade. She's beautiful and has a lot going for herself. It feels akward hanging out with the two of them because he's not even mature. She claims she loves him though. What can I say to her to convince her she deserves better than a school cutting, weed smoking KID???
2007-10-17 10:24:45 · 17 answers · asked by Felicity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, I DO have a boyfriend I'm very happy with and he's 20.
2007-10-17 10:45:08 · update #1
You can't say anything. Instead get her out where she can meet guys her own age in social situations. There are plenty of things that she can do now that she's in college that this "boy" can't. And she'll realize sooner or later that he's holding her back. And when she does, you wont be the bad guy for pointing it out.
2007-10-17 10:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 23:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't convince your friend of anything. She's going to do what she wants to do, and it's pretty indicative of her own maturity level that she would want to date a 16 year old while she's in college. Maybe you are too mature for the both of them. Just because you're both the same age, doesn't mean you're both at the same place in your life.
2007-10-17 10:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where she lives that relationship could be illegal. Where I live @ 16 someone can date up to 3 years older then them. Its not really your place to say anything if she is happy then that is all that really matters. Yeah sooner or later she will realize that she deserves better but she has to make that decision.
2007-10-17 10:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think she deserves (or wants) "better than a school cutting, weed smoking KID" -- just butt out. If it's awkward for you to hang around, then don't.
2007-10-17 10:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you was her friend you would respect her decision. 3 years is nothing. there is 15 years between my husband and i. are you just uncomfortable hanging with them as you feel like a spare tyre. if thats the case get a boyfriend and be happy for your friend if she loves him all you will do is push her away. if things go wrong between them then be there for her but don't try telling her to break up with someone she loves. how would you feel if you was her and she was writing this about you
2007-10-17 10:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ღ♥Samantha B™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what you just said. She deserves better than a school cutting weed smoking kid!
2007-10-17 10:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by solelone 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
None of your business, really. Or did someone die and appoint you as your friend's guardian?
She needs to be aware of the state laws on sex with minors; in TX if the age difference is greater then 36 months (though someone told me that's been changed to 24 months) than it is statutory rape. Different states have different laws.
2007-10-17 10:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but there is nothing you can do. I still fall for my 20 year old ex boyfriend and i am only 15. Even though i doubt he graduated and i am planning on graduation early, i cant stop falling for him, so the best you can do is leave them alone. soon enough she will come to her senses. hopefully i will too
2007-10-17 10:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Spinner Rocks!~*~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try and set up some activities that are more mature, that you know your friend will enjoy, but her boyfriend wont understand. if you do enough of that im sure she will get sick of him
2007-10-17 10:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋