weve been split up a while, he saaid he dosnt no what he wants. he will not take his things, which i have packed for him, he says he loves me, but.... i have said its ok just say its over but he will not.. i say come back he will not.....im confused
2007-10-17 10:23:29 · 10 answers · asked by lou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get all of his stuff and put it out with the garbage-tell him to come and get it before the garbage men trash it.
Problem solved.
2007-10-18 04:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he still loves you but doesn't like the way your relationship was going. Ask him where he thinks you both went wrong and together try and work out a way to change that. If he refuses then drop his things off at his parents house with a note to say you've made up his mind for him. You never know, this could jolt him into realising exactly what he wants.
2007-10-17 10:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chucksey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt know what he wants . If he takes his stuff then its over, and maybe he doesnt want that, but he isnt ready to come back either.
If you want to move on then take his stuff to him and say goodbye.
You could try sitting down with him and talking about the situation. Just be clear about what you need from the relationship.
2007-10-17 10:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that he maybe seeing someone else, but is too frightened of starting with someone new. Sounds to me that he wants to keep you dangling while he sorts out what he wants. Maybe he wants change but is frightened of it. Better the devil you know and all that.
Kick him into touch, it may spurt a reaction. Don't let him keep you dangling that is not fair. He needs to make a decision.
2007-10-17 10:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by ciara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is edging his bets. Post/send his stuff back, hold your head up high, get on with your life and show him a strong independent woman.....very attractive feature.... which will show him just what he is missing and then when he comes running back, you decide exactly what/who you want as you're worth and you deserve better.
2007-10-17 10:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by RASCAL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allow me to "un" confuse u. He is trying 2 have his cake and eat it 2. If he wont do it,by all means help him...2 the curb.
2007-10-17 10:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by ahnobitok 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as though he's frightened of making a mistake which ever way.send him his stuff tell him to come see you when he makes his mind up.if he loves you he'll come back.tough love maybe?? sounds a bit strange to me,i mean i don't know him but it's abit suspect to me.could there be someone else?
2007-10-17 10:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you need to do what rascal says ... Or just move on with your life and dont worry about him.. Good luck
2007-10-17 10:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by diva102288 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail his stuff to him and be done with him. Tell him you don't your life on hold while he waits.
2007-10-17 10:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you waiting for him to make the decision?
2007-10-17 11:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by miakaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋