I know siblings argue and occasionally fight, but is this normal?
My girlfriend was visiting her sister and her roommates a few weeks ago. They occasionally play argue, and were calling names and such. My girl was lying on the floor and easily threw a small weighted ball onto the couch at her sister. Her sis threw it back and hit her in the tummy. She threw it back harder at her sister, hititng her this time. Her sis then jumped up and kicked her hard in the stomach. My girl has a very strong belly and you can see her abs, but she said the kick was high just below the ribs and knocked the wind out of her. She wanted to chase after her sis and finish the fight, but she said she could not uncurl from holding her belly for a full minute. An hour later when she left, she could still feel where the heel hit her.
I have fought with siblings, but not to this caliber and with the intention of hurting them. Is it typical for sisters to fight this severly?
2007-10-17 10:09:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I forgot to mention my gf is 19 and her sister is 23. Her sis is a bit heavyset and my gf is quite thin. Don't know if this is relevant, but they have argued about my girl wearing shirts that show her belly button on campus?
2007-10-17 10:24:05 · update #1
well ur gf should have never started a fight she couldnt finish, she sounds like a wimp!
2007-10-17 10:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would say there is a love/hate relationship.
Maybe the sister was jealous that her sister had you, a BF.
You should really talk to your GF and tell her that this is not a normal relationship to want to physical or mentally hurt the other.
It is suppose to be based on love and loyalty.
Wow, next time you are going to see her sister, I would wear like a catcher's mask or something like that, funny, maybe it will get the point across!
Good luck
2007-10-17 10:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister is lots older than me, so that's from the attitude of a youthful sibling. at the same time as her blaming you for her abode life sucking is unreasonable, older siblings have a super impact on youthful ones. So while it includes stuff like telling her what to do, do no longer act like her determine, and verify once you refer to her you do no longer sound opposed. at the same time as maximum of this does sound like her undertaking, she must be mad at you for some thing valid, yet while she's no longer, basically are not getting wrapped up in stupid fights.
2016-10-07 03:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by piekarski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need help. Anyone who has a sibling knows this argument. The only problem is they took this fight to a whole new level. They wanted to inflict as much pain as possible and that's when you should know that you need help. Let your GF know that you are concerned for her and want her to deal with problems like the adult that she is and not to bring out the inner child to deal with them.
2007-10-17 10:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe this is normal? Sisters are usually close and share a bond with eachother. There might possibly be further abuse in the home that they are learning this behavior from. I don't think that is appropriate fighting
2007-10-17 10:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is carrying it a little too far. They should sign up to be lady wrestlers.
2007-10-17 10:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but dont get into it. theyll make up and if u dont see progress tell them their stupid. life is for friends and family not for hatred. lifes 2 short for that
2007-10-17 11:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
territorial siblings is what this is called I would backl off and just visit somewhere else
2007-10-17 10:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes it is like that. i fight with my sister and i ahet it but then sometimes i just wish she wasnt born. its all normal but your girls sister sound really mean.
2007-10-17 10:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by Boston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they were all acting immature, they nedd to apoligize to each other. and forget about it.
2007-10-17 10:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by lil mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋