i feel as though whatever i do im just not going to make it i always try hard but mess up in the not in my ..?

Question

college/ academic life but in life in general
please help this is VITAL!

not only in my college and academic life but aslo in life in general

Answer 1

Life is messy, and the reason it's messy, is that we all make messes. Everyone who lays eyes on this post, makes mistakes, or feels ill at ease or unsure of themselves sometimes. You are young and inexperienced, just do the best you can with what you've got, do the best you can to learn and grow, and you will feel more empowered as time goes on, it is one of the gifts of getting older. Nobody's perfect, so don't compare yourself to some unreasonable standard of perfection, there is no such thing. Just try to learn a little more each day, and do just a little bit better each day. Dwell on your successes, and while learning from your failures what you could have done better, do your best to let go of them, and keep focused on your goals, maintaining a positive image for yourself of things that went right during the day, no matter how small. Good luck.......

Answer 2

I feel that way... but for life in general. Dude, look at yourself, you're in college! No matter what you do, no matter how badly you screw up, you still have got further in your life than a lot of people have, so your head must be in pretty good shape and won't let you fail too miserably down the road if you make a mistake here or a bad choice there.

Answer 3

Well, life goes on, trust me.
To err is human- just make sure you learn from your missteps. To learn, not to dwell...