I literally walked in on him with another female (a mutual friend) and was told to "hang on I'm almost done." Then we all sat around talking like nothing happened but I was (in RL) overcome with sadness and woke up with a heavy feeling.
I know that dreams are not literal. My husband is NOT cheating on me so you can save time with those, but what is the underlying meaning? I'd love to know what you think...
Also, why are some dreams (like this one) so vivid that it is hard to forget and yet most nights I don't even remember dreaming much less what my dreams are about...?
2007-10-17 06:05:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
I think it's because it struck something with you, or is something you need to deal with, and thats why you remember it.
I am sure your husband is not cheating on you, but maybe you feel cheated by him? Like he is always giving more of his time or something to someone else openly and expects you to be ok with it? I'm not saying he has to be doing something wrong, but that maybe you feel as though he is doing something wrong.
2007-10-17 07:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The brain naturally "flushes" away dreams -- that's why it's difficult to remember them.
(In fact, some scientists think that dreaming is actually a process of "cleaning" out our short-term memory so we're not overwhelmed with all of the things that happen to us.)
However, since we spend time thinking about very emotional/dramatic dreams, they do tend to get stored in our long-term memory and not forgotten.
What's it mean? Only YOU can interpret your dreams. If I had to guess, I'd say there is something that is making you feel disconnected from your husband... a disagreement, different plans or differing opinions. Or maybe it's nothing -- just a weird fluke.
Don't take it too seriously... and DO NOT assume it means he's cheating, that you don't trust him or that you're having major relationship problems ...but learn from it if you can.
All the best!
2007-10-17 06:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by C. Douglas T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an expert,but having dreams like this one is usually a sign that there is possibly something lacking in your sexual relationship with your husband.Maybe you are feeling that you dont satisfy him or that the sex is not the same.....No,it dont mean your husband is cheating!!!
As for why some dreams are so vivid is usually because you are think more about the situation the any other dream that is not remembered....I hope this makes sense.
2007-10-17 06:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by mysterious_misty1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty certain dreams can be linked to things we witness, or hear or think about and are not an accurate perception discerned by the divine mind.
I've had ridiculous dreams that very closely match ridiculous things I've seen on tv the night before. This happens SO often for me.
A friend and I always share our dreams and when we've seen a movie together we both have a dream that is linked to it.
I guess my point is.. the source of a dream could be almost anything that could possibly cross your mind.
2007-10-17 08:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by srsly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dream is the voice of your subconscious and anybody's subconscious is the most powerful thing in the world.
now before i try decoding what your dream meant i must know when it occurred.
if it came up somewhere around 10 pm to 3 am (during sleep) then consider it the fear of your subconscious. after seeing that woman, you have been thinking about it a lot and your subconscious has just echoed those feelings by showing you a vivid picture of your horrors. the point is: DON'T FEAR. its just an empty rambling.
BUT if you saw the dream after 3 pm then it has a meaning. it means that your husband is very dear to you and shall hold you dear as well.
That's all i could find in an old book i have beside me right now...
hope it answers your query well.
2007-10-17 06:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, for some unknown reason you feel as though you haven't been spending enough quality time with him, and in the back of your mind you know you should, and deep down you are feeling a little guilty about this. Your mind can play funny tricks on you. Been there, have had the same kind of dreams, and realized that It was because I thought if I didn't give my partner enough attention someone out there definitely would... Just a thought
2007-10-17 06:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he is being without doubt ridiculous, as good because the individuals calling you a slut and such. Just for the reason that he had a dream of you sound asleep with an additional guy, most likely doesn't suggest it is going down in truly existence. I had a dream that I had intercourse with considered one of my excellent peers however I could not ever in my existence. Sometimes your brain creates extraordinary goals that can characterize different matters out of your unconscious. For illustration, his dream of you dishonest would possibly simply be his insecurities and worry popping out. Hun you have to speak a few feel into that man and inform him it used to be just a dream.
2016-09-05 12:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer to that is very brief. whatever we think stays at the back of our minds and becomes a dream. maybe there's an instance that you felt insecured of yourself such as when you see your husband speaking to someone else. even though you are not jealous but the insecurity is very strong, in some aspects like these people have strong qualities that you have. so your dreams is the extension of what you think may possibly happen. but always remember, this was just a DREAM!
2007-10-17 08:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Reeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you don't really trust your husband. No offence, but did you have boyfriends who cheated on you, friends who backstabbed, anything like that? Do you feel slightly undervalued / unloved by your husband / people around you? Do you sometimes feel like your husband is hiding something (I don't just mean cheating)? It could mean you are anxious about being left by someone you love. Try bringing it up, jokily. This might open him up to you - not about cheating necessarily, but a LOT of things. Maybe it stuck in your head because secretly you ARE concerned about what your husband hides from you and what motivated you to have this dream. So it snagged in your mind like that.
2007-10-17 06:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by Rihannafan99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had one of those dreams and I was mad at my hubby for a day before I talked to him about it... now it is a joke between us!! Sometimes dreams are so vivid they FEEL real!! I have no idea why... but I can relate :)
2007-10-17 06:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by crissygirly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋