Met a lady around 9 months ago, we liked each other a lot but I kind of messed her around in the process as I wasn’t sure if I wanted a relationship and lead her on slightly. She did a lot for me in the process by even putting a TV on credit for me as a favour worth 1,500 and was there for me through alot of things. I ended things as I really liked her but didn’t want a relationship at that time I didnt want to deal with all of that then. I started to loose respect and treated her like crap. telling her things like go and get a man and stop callin and texin me!! I said I was going to give her back her money no doubt about that, so that I could get her off my back and she just wanted to be with me and was findin excuse to call, she then said dont wori about the TV ANYMORE! and since then she has not bothered calling and the number that I did have for her just goes to voicemail. the last time that I had any contact with her was in july sometime. Do you think she has moved on now?
2007-10-17 02:47:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt want to really end on bad terms I was going through a bad patch and went bankrupt aswell and was taking it out on her really!!
I just wanted to get rid of her as I was stressed out but feel bad as we could have had something potential!
2007-10-17 02:47:56 · update #1
Dude she has moved on and you should too...
2007-10-17 02:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tankerwife 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give her back the money. I would feel even worse if ididn't.
What is it with men and issues.Poor cow i hope she finds a man whose worth her while, Cos you sure weren't. You sound like u used her even tho i'm sure u didn't on purpose. Altho i'm sure she won't think that way, If u were dating ud know her address and put a chq through her door if you meant it. if u were close u knew where she lived, So don't give me this i called her and she changed her number crap...and don't worry about the tv anymore..ur a sad excuse for a human being... its the tv u wanted and out of respect u should pay, if i was her i'd claim the thing back. put a chq throu her door............. altho i'm sure u won't and let her pay for it.. I'd move on if i was her. Don't sound that difficult to me! Your an As* Hole
2007-10-17 04:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think that she has probably moved on. It seems as if you gave her reasons to go on to someone else. You told her to get a man and to stop calling and texting you, but maybe if you had told her that you were going through somethings and would appreciate a little time away, she may have been alright with that. She may eventually get to a point where she'll answer one of your phone calls, but as of now I do believe that she just wants her space.
2007-10-17 03:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shandra S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully she's move on...no point in clinging to someone who would be unkind and disrespectful. Once someone has made a good effort to let someone know how they feel and they'd like things to work out, if the other person brushes them off or replies in a negative way, then the best thing is to move on.
2007-10-17 02:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God that really irks me.... sorry.... I have had a similar situation happen to me within the last month ago.... His name is David.... We liked each other but we were going to wait until I turned 18 for security reasons.... He started telling me to F off and don't call him anymore and also said to lose his number.... So yea jj she definitely has moved on since then.... You kind of have to when the guy was being a jerk off
2007-10-17 02:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can say I easily have easily no sympathy for you why ? because you probably did not be a guy you position her up on a pedestal ( incorrect element to do ) and as a effect she knew it and took finished great thing about you she dealt with you want crap because it really is all you wanted because you probably did not arise for your self and also you middle beliefs you became her carpet mat she knew you had low self-worth and absence of self respect and as a effect dealt with you for that reason a positive self ware guy don't have this issues as if something he turns the table and he's the only on the relaxing end you truth about being frightened about being lonely is telling you should by no skill have that dropping attitude you regardless of the truth that you had a lady of an finished life because she become pleasing and that would want to have bee and purple flag with any luck you study plenty from this in that you by no skill pay more suitable than 20 funds on a date you by no skill ever placed a lady up on a pedestal you're continually in call for ( regardless of if you're no longer ) with the intention to as provide the effect you lead an finished existence and women individuals are more suitable than a hassle than of any income to you you provide women individuals a backhanded praise to save them off stability you listen each day to Tom Leykas for the subsequent 2 years to provide you a more suitable ideal perspective on how women individuals function
2016-10-21 07:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has written you off and moved on. The nice thing to do would be to write her a letter of apology and send her a check for the money you owe. At least a payment for it if that is all you can afford.
2007-10-17 02:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by iceemama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more than likely yes.
but there is always a small chance.
it depends on her.
you never know how another person feels or think.
my (now) fiance' and i broke it off for about a year because of major disagreements. we didnt speak or see eachother during that time period. recently we came into contact again and are stronger than ever.
so it reallu depends on her and where she is in her life.
if all else fails, why dont you try calling her?! and apologizing.
go slowly, step by step, and see where it takes you.
remember, everything happens for a reason.
2007-10-17 02:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren_Brooke_Reed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you threw away something Really special ....women that take that much crap are HARD to find. It sounds like she is now fed up and moved on....as she should!! You can't blame her for leaving ......when she wanted you, you didn't want her......now you want her and she is long gone. You can't blame her, would you have stayed if the tables where turned? I doubt it....
2007-10-17 02:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed up the relationship, and frankly she would have been a fool to stick around for your shenanigans.
For whatever reason you decided to push her away and were successful..... it's your loss.
2007-10-17 02:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel remorseful, you should try to contact her and at least apologize. Though she might not give you the time of day.
2007-10-17 02:51:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋