I'm no great looker but I can look very nieve and like I'm about 19 (I'm 24). I'm just wondering why a man would continue to come onto you - WHILE YOUR HUSBAND IS THERE!!!!!!
I made it quite obvious I was married and yet he was all "Are you wearing contacts?" NO?!!!!! But you have such pearcing blue eyes" Even if I was was single EWWWWWW.
Anyway later he waited till my husband was talking to someone else - because we didn't actually leave each others side all night, thought that would have been obvious enough - to ask if I was out and about the next day . I turned to my husband and asked him and suddenly this guy wasn't interested anymore.
Even after that he insisted on kissing my hand about three times which by the end was turning into a slobbery snog.
Anyway this is the least intrusive a man has been recently - usually they feel like they can be all up in my face or grab a squeeze of something (At which point they get a bit shocked because I don't slap I man-punch)
WHY????????
2007-10-16 22:48:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You need to hang out with some other crowd.
Here's a question for you. Does your husband like to be around these people? Does it turn him ON when his wife is ogled, groped, and leered?
Perhaps, you should go "EWWW" to your husband.
2007-10-17 01:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lighthouse 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A good man-punch may be the only message this yob can understand. Perhaps a combination of punches that leave him hurting, embarassed, and on the floor?
Men try to bed women because they are men.
Married women are not always faithful, contrary to popular belief.
Perhaps you are just so darn sexy that they can not resist.
Also perhaps being married you feel comfortable displaying your inherent sexuality, rather than keeping it a bit more private and displaying for your mate only.
2007-10-16 23:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Schtupa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the same ****! I will be at a bar WITH MY HUSBAND, both of us with wedding rings on and all, and guys will continue to hit on me. And once my hubby has a few beers he really doesn't hold much back. Just last week we were at a haunted house and a man grabbed my *** in line and well now my husband has assault charges, but that guy need his *** beat. I feel for ya!
2007-10-17 02:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by ☆ღWifey Wifeyღ☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are a great looker or not the behavior you describe is not normal. Either you are entertaining some strange people or your body language invites them to approach you and continue to come on to you. You are very aware of what you are doing and most likely enjoying it.
2007-10-17 00:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because these particular pigs have no respect for you, your husband or marriage. The key word here is "some men". No gentleman would ever behave in such a boorish manner. Forget the man-punch. When you encounter one of these low-lifes drive your knee hard into where it counts. They deserve it.
2007-10-17 00:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by countrygent07 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well just because your sitting next to someone doesn't say your married!
sometimes you have to be bold and set your expecitations!
Hey i'm married and i do not like or will accept your intolarance to that!
now that you know we can talk and drink together do not go beyond that point!
Thank you for respecting my wishes!
remember men don't get hints! they never have and never will!
and i still don't undertsand it they are logicall based humans you would think they would know how to take a hint!
but it is best to just tell them!
2007-10-17 02:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your first man was a drunk....if this happens all the time, then you need to make some changes, either in the people you are around, or in the way YOU conduct yourself. Something is wrong, this is not normal.
2007-10-16 23:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as far as your piercing blue eyes, he was probably right.(be careful who you pierce next) Asking if you would be out the next day,give him the brush,when you let him kiss your hand, you didn"t know what you were getting into.
2007-10-16 23:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by snappyu@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your name says it all deamon sa diablo;no one in their right mind would would really want you for any thing but a few good lay's your husband is an idiot a weak man and you think its you thats really hot.your a nothing ZILT once youve been had he will move on to another whoe
2007-10-16 23:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Because the more "taken" you are, the bigger the challenge.
2007-10-16 22:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋