im going to her house in the morning she lives about 2 hrs away she doesnt have long to live she has cancer she is getting weaker ever day iam going to stay there at her house im scared when the time comes when she is gone i dont want her to go it will be so hard
2007-10-16 15:27:30 · 11 answers · asked by lisa13angelic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I lost my mother two years ago and you'll never recover or forget her, you will always share a bond -- even beyond this world. Your mother will still be with you, holding your hand and doing her best to keep you out of harms way. Trust your instincts and you will know when she is with you. There's no easy way to handle this, just know that you can get through this for your mother and that you are going to be okay. Your mom needs to know you are okay. Be strong for the both of you. Spend as much time with her as you can. Memorize her face, hold her hand and let her know how much you love her. You are blessed in one way to know that each moment has got to count. Many times when we lose our loved ones it's unannounced and without notice. There's just no good way to say goodbye to someone who's been such a significant part of your life. God bless you. You have my prayers.
2007-10-16 15:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by ursobustedmr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are going through this.
You need to focus your energy on giving her the best care you can give her, with full compassion.
True she is having to leave her physical life too early for your taste, but perhaps there is a lesson in all this for you on a soul level.
I can say that when your mother finally lays down her physical body for the last time and gets up without it, she will truly be set free, and it will be a joyous moment for her. You will mourn the loss of her physical presence, but you must rejoice that she will be beyond all pain.
We do go on after we "die".
My dad died this year, suddenly of a heart attack... on March 1st. I sent out an e-mail to my many spiritualist friends and several either called or wrote me back telling me how funny he is! They had never met him in physical. I could hear him making hilarious remarks at his funeral.
2007-10-16 22:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..I feel sad now...just spend as much time as u can with her..Tell her all the things u want her to know...what she means for u and how u appreciate all the things she's done 4 u..I would do it.Make her happy and don't forget:Ppl don't die they're gone 4 awhile until we go and find them..that is sth that makes me have courage and think death is not so bad.I think I helped! :(
2007-10-17 12:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to make the most of the last moments together.My father died of cancer,and yes it is hard to watch them slowly go,but we made best of the time we had together(when he wasnt too weak).I moved interstate to be with him and it ended upn being the best move I made.
2007-10-16 22:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by boldyman2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just spend the time being with her. It will be hard when she's gone, but you will get through it. Of course, you don't want her to go, but you have to let her go and let her know it's all right for her to go. I hope others will be there with you to help you. You will need them. Please get grief counseling.
2007-10-16 22:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by sundsqk321@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough situation you are facing. Tell your Mum you love her and anything else you have ever wanted to or needed to tell her. Thank you for raising you and teaching you about life. Tell her what you have appreciated about her. Listen to her and love her and cherish the time you have together. My heart goes out to you. All the best.
2007-10-17 05:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yu cant do an this point other than jst enjoying tha time yu have wit yur mother. tell her how much yu luv her and cares for her so tht yu wont regret it after shes gone. i kno its hard but dont think negative bcauz tht hurts even more.
2007-10-16 22:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by goofy's child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about your mom. Its ok to be scared, but try to make this time with your mom special. make sure she knows how much you love her. I am sure it is very hard on you both to have to say good bye. Make these last momemnts with her memorable, so that someday they will make you smile.
2007-10-16 22:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Livi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must hard but that is inevitable. Spend quality time with your mom while you still can. Prayers can do wonders for both of you.
2007-10-16 23:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry your moms got cancer i pray for a miracle every one pray for her mom ask for a devine healing im praying so every one pray even if its alone
2007-10-17 00:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋